How to unfriend someone?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend I known her ever since I was 8 but I’m so sick and tired of her attitude. Yesterday was my birthday and I wanted korean food. She literally walks out and says I don’t want this I’m going to get Mexican. I was literally about to cry because I was really looking forward with eating Korean food with my friends. Secondly, I had an escape room planned she says “I want to go home. I don’t feel like staying out I’m staying the car.” I was like okay whatever. I was getting kinda annoyed now, after we left the escape room we decided to go clubbing and she calls me with BS saying we need to hurry up and I need to come on so she can go home etc. I couldn’t even enjoy my birthday because she was annoying af. Next day she spent the night, I told her I’m going to go exercise she literally comes with me and then she says she doesn’t want to do this anymore and that she wants to go home. I’m so sick of her, she doesn’t have a license I drive her wherever she needs to go etc. she doesn’t pay for gas she didn’t get me a birthday gift. Im afraid to confront her because then she’ll turn it around like she’s the victim I can’t take it anymore.

[MementoMori777]

Doing through text next time she asks to hang out, you tell her you don't want too and then explain all the times she did you dirty cause she only wanted to do what she wanted, if you have to leave her on read at some point then I'd say do what you gotta do to end the friendship.

[Asker]

She also posted this ugly ass picture of me watching tv on her story and I’m pissed about it. She’s always recording me too, everytime I’m driving or just doing something. It’s like you don’t have to fucking record everything holy shit. I’ll think I’ll just leave her on read or straight up tell her I don’t want to hang out

[MementoMori777]

Yep that's how I just straight up told my old friends that weren't good for me, then I just ignored them cause tbh they were never good friends to me and I just wanted separation, if you do something similar I wouldn't be surprised.

[Asker]

I think the hard thing about other women is that they’ll start spreading rumors and they’ll use shit against you. So I have to take on a strategic approach at this.

[MementoMori777]

But who are they starting the rumors with tho, or do y'all belong to a friends group?

[Asker]

She has her own little group of friends and I have my own as well. Its easy to spread rumors.

[MementoMori777]

Then you tell your group how you feel about her and tell her you want to unfriend her, they will probably understand and they will detect what she says as false rumors cause they already know the truth

[Asker]

I did. They all understand, but I’m just trying to be drama free

[MementoMori777]

I see, well I wish you the best on your situation and I hope you sound solutions that benefit everyone. 💯🙏

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Just tell her she's selfish and you don't want to hang around her anymore.

[Anonymous]

Either be up front and just tell her you don't want to be friends anymore, and deal with whatever argument ensues.

Or increasing become 'too busy' to hang out anymore.

[Asker]

I like the second idea. I’m just trying to avoid any arguments tbh

[Anonymous]

Be upfront with her. She needs to know she is a shitty person, so hopefully with times she stops

[Christoff92]

Just go on with your life and be happy for who you are then worrying about them trying to appraiser you. That's all.