Don't You Think It's Very Childish To Block or Unfriend Someone On FB Just Because They've Rejected You?

[Anonymous]

Not that it's a big deal but i just wonder if anyone else thinks the same? I mean i know it sucks to be rejected but still.. what are you 5?

[Creole_Flavor]

I don't think it is childish at all I would actually prefer it rather then knowing someone I rejected could be stalking me online. If unfriending or blocking someone makes them feel better after being rejected then do it. I probably won't notice or care and more then likely depending the person's attitude I would unfriend or block them if they are rude or creepy before they get a chance to do it so its no biggie.

[Artchic528]

I don't know. I just know it's childish to call me stupid names over a minor disagreement, and then blocking me on Facebook like some 5 year old. But you know, I really don't need those kinds of people to talk to me in the first place, so it's all on them. It's also their loss that they don't want me as a friend.

[Lisa_Zhang]

most guys are little boys, you have to see them that way or you will go crazy :)

[Asker]

greatest advice hahaha

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Doesn't even cross my mind as long as she's not immature about rejecting me. I obviously liked her enough to ask her out, so why not be friends?

[croxy]

I honostly wouldn't give a shit, I mean it's facebook, who cares?

[Asker]

yeah no biggie i just wanted to see if anyone else thinks the same

[croxy]

I see the whole connection between Facebook and being rejected as childish itself, so I guess yea.

[Anonymous]

Yes!! everyone seems to think if you're not friend on Facebook then you're not friend in real life! But that's lame coz Facebook doesn't mean shit lol dw too much about it he's a child

[Asker]

Agreed with that! they totally forget about real life lmao! Thanks!

[CommieDearest]

No. It's not childish. They may not want to be in contact with you anymore if the nature of the relationship isn't going to be how they want it to.

[Mgoods]

Depends on the reason behind it. Some people are immature, others might need it to move on. Could be a mixture of both.

[AdamThomas]

Not really. If he was only. interested in dating you/fucking you and not in being friends, of course he'll just delete you.

[goldenspice]

What do you care if you rejected them? What do you expect? Them to be nice to you and care what you post each day, possibly see the pics you put up of future relationships?
Just put yourself in their shoes.

[Asker]

i already do but i'd not do something childish like that if i were them. and NO i don't expect them to "be nice to me and care what I post each day, possibly see the pics I put up of future relationships?"

[Asker]

i just think it's childish that's all.

[goldenspice]

Well if only they knew that not only did you reject them but now you are calling them childish... wow and you are still wondering why they blocked you? Maybe you did them a favor?

[Asker]

i don't want an argument... see you ma'am

[Asker]

good bye* not see you lol

[goldenspice]

Bye - lol

[abundantlyrich]

Accept it. It hurts to be friends with someone they can't be with.

[Klaatu51]

yeah i agree... very very childish!!!

[Asker]

exactly!

[Anonymous]

yes it's childish but understandable

[Asker]

yeah you're right.

[ezmode]

No. Its easier to move on

[Asker]

well now i see. i rejected this guy being as kind and careful about my choice of words as possible and he get upset and mad at me. later i realized he's unfriended me lol. i guess he just wanted to move on easily?

[Asker]

he got*

[ezmode]

Y its often used as a coping mechanism. Try not take offence cuz its just his way of dealing with rejection.

[Asker]

i see.. thank you

[Mfal97]

No, it’s childish thinking he has to stay your friend even though that’s not what he wants.

[Calex]

Not really.