How immature is it to UNFRIEND someone on Facebook?

[mm53912011]

Really? I just got unfriend by some " friend" on Facebook because I didn't attend her go away party this weekend! Is it just me or is she that immature? WOW Really?

[whattothink]

hmmm I only deleted like one person that I wasn't really great friends with and we never really talked anymore and my ex that I had a brief fling with and he "borrowed" money that he never paid me back then cussed me out when I asked for it to get my brakes fixed. So depending on the reason not so much.

[tohrment]

I got unfriended by a girl I hung out with in high school the other day cos my best friend is bangin' her ex boyfriend. I found it rather strange.

But yes, a lot of people use unfriending someone as the equivalent of exiling them from a nation. The ultimate punishment. *Giggles*

[mm53912011]

maybe you don't NEED a friend like her anymore ( this's also goes for me)

[tohrment]

lol this is true. I'm not particularly heart broken, I just found it very odd.

[Freetobe007]

Maybe there was more to the reason than that and that's the only part you're seeing.

[mm53912011]

yes, maybe... there are always 2 sides to the story right?

[Freetobe007]

yup...maybe you did other things that already had her pissed off and annoyed with you and she felt like you not taking the time to go to her going away party was the last straw.

[mm53912011]

I don't recall if I'd done anything offensive to her (we hardly talked and hang out exception on social gatherings). I just out she's not listed anymore on my girlfriend (her aunt) FB's profile either.

[mm53912011]

*hung out... just found out *

[Freetobe007]

hmmmm idk

if I were you, I'd just straight up ask her about it. You don't have to be confrontational. Just be like "Hey, I was wondering why you deleted your Aunt and I from your Facebook?"

[cmknoll3]

Is it immature what she did? Yes. Is it immature to care that someone unfriended you for stupid immature reasons? Also yes. Why do you care? Unless it's someone you really care for and hang with all the time, what difference does it make to you if she unfriends you?

[mm53912011]

you're right, I shouldn't care. We're NOT that close anyway. But, I always attended invited social/her family/party events hosted by her/her family. For once, I just decided to skip it

[Anonymous]

Did you explain to her why you couldn't go. You can't just not show up and not say anything, she probably felt stood up and had a right to delete you. Besides, why should you care, doesn't sound like a very good friend anyway

[rachel05]

yall obviously weren't super close or she wouldn't have done that.. so why would you care... right?

[sweet_18]

i think nothing of it. Facebook doesn't mean anything to me

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's why I'm not on Facebook I don't need the drama.

[upsyndrome]

It's almost as immature as giving a f***.

[Anonymous]

Amazing how much crap gets stirred up by Facebook.