Husband telling women on sites that he’s single?

[Taylorsheila19]

I went through my husbands phone the other night and went on his email and found a website called extreme chats he hit up a girl and she asked about his status he told her he was single. This is not the first time I have been disrespected my husband also video chatted with a girl sexually. I want to leave. but I am not sure if I should give him another change. I just moved 14 hrs away to be with him we got married 3 months ago. I am unsure what to do, I am hurt. I confronted him about it and he says his email got hacked and it was not him but I don’t believe this.

[Paris13]

H e is lying. He Cheated before and Probably More times Than you even Know. Make Plans to Pack up and Go back those 14 Miles from this Loser. He will only get Worse. You deserve a Better man. xx

[Taylorsheila19]

Yes I deserve better

[Paris13]

@Taylorsheila19 ASAP!!! xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[Anonymous]

I’d suggest marriage counseling. You know he isn’t telling you the truth about being hacked. So did you confront him once already in regards to the video chat? Meaning this would be the second time as far as the emails. Again I’d suggest marriage counseling. You took him back the first time that’s why he did it again. You need professional help.

[jimmy2]

God bless you dear
Ohy he most likely will chest. It 3 months means you 3 are just starting out.
Therefore sit him down with you. Give him a choice your body or a lust body in cyber world let him know how hurt you are. I pray for the best of you. Please be careful

[NotTacocaT6969]

Divorce him and take everything he owns.


When accounts get hacked, they don’t have sexual conversations with internet women…they spread malware and share scam links.


How can he explain the sexual video chat? Is the hacker a shapeshifter now too?


Get rid.

[Taylorsheila19]

Yes I was talking to divorce lawyers today and he lied about that too he said sorry and then 3 weeks later when on a website to hit up women saying he’s single. Should I take my name of the lease and go home or should I give him another change

[NotTacocaT6969]

If you gibe him another chance he will only disappoint you again.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Give*

[Taylorsheila19]

True that’s why I am probably going to leave soon I need to take the bills out of my name

[Chrysandra1791]

Yeah, I think we all agree that you should just leave him forever. He does not love you, he does not care for you. He is a plain and simple player.

[Paulalove98]

Thats so terrible and sad if that's really true. Im so so sorry... I personally couldn't forgive someone if they cheated but honestly follow your heart but he SHOULD respect you especially as your husband. Thats not fair.

[Taylorsheila19]

It’s not fair. I have been sitting here the last couple of days and trying to see if all this is really worth it. I see people that are Married 25 years and unhappy and I am still young and can move on but it’s hard now because I am married

[Paulalove98]

@Taylorsheila19 I totally understand even tho I've never been married i was almost gonna move across the states to marry a guy who was abusive to me emotionally and we hardly got along but somewhere along that line i loved him deeply but i chose to let go of him because i dont wanna look back in 10 or 15 years stuck in a miserable relationship. So what yeah maybe some people have things young but doesn't mean it will last forever, and we are both young and worthy and it's totally fine to wait sometimes for someone better than settle for less with someone who is unhealthy for our soul. Im single and almost 24 and left that toxic relationship over a year ago, some people my age are married or younger with kids but it doesn't make me wanna rush even tho i desire it too. Point is, you dont have to settle for less like that.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Alarm. That's a red alert. "My account got hacked" No. Fat lie. How long have you been dating anyway?

[Taylorsheila19]

1 year

[Ms_Facesitter]

I think that's way too soon to make such a jump to marriage right away. But what do I know, I'm single right now. Anyway, he's a cheater. He did it before, he did it again, lied about it again, Will probably try to cheat again.
You're better than this, being treated like this.

[Makeushiver]

That's shitty. It could have been just letting off steam and the single designation was probably the only way he could chat with anyone. Though I'm sure it feels really shitty but it doesn't necessarily mean that he's stepping out on you

[Iron_Man]

That’s a big problem you both probably better go to family counseling. But he has to be willing to try and fix it

[Taylorsheila19]

We don’t have kids together. I am just hurt and unsure what to do.

[Iron_Man]

But still you’re married seek out a high-quality professional counselor

[Taylorsheila19]

Yes I also thought about getting counseling. But he thinks he has done nothing wrong he won’t even take accountability for what he did.

[Iron_Man]

That’s crazy I would like to see him tell a counselor that, that he’s done nothing wrong he needs to take responsibility and be held accountable for his actions

[Taylorsheila19]

It’s not the first time he’s disrespected me that’s why I thought about taking all my stuff and going back to my hometown. Counseling is an option if he wants to go because in his mind he did nothing wrong and has nothing to apologize for. He claims someone hacked his email but I don’t believe it.

[melanieeeB]

Folks don't marry so fast... well you married a cheater, congrats 🙄

[Woodchuck411]

Trust is very difficult thing to gain from the start yet along when it's violated

[WendigoHunter]

Sorry girl, but your hubby is made for the streets. He's just going to keep doing it regardless of what counseling you get. What arguments you have. He's just built that way. Even if he stopped for a minute eventually he will pick it back up. Like I said your husband's made for the streets..

[Nahid1707]

You are allowed to feel this way
You want to be loved and respected. This is bad drama and you definitely did so much for him such as move to where you are now.
I’m sorry this happened.💜

[bigpauly]

That's not a good start. Seems like big red flags.

I am sorry this happened to you. If you are confident he did it, I think you would be wise to get out now.

[TroyDT]

Sadly, the longer you wait the worse it is likely to get.

[Wise4myage]

He deserves to be dumped.

[Anonymous]

You got yourself a cheater.

[Hyaz11t]

They will Never change