How longest it took you to get over someone you were in love with and what you went through?

[Anonymous]

I was rejected in September. So it is a while. I am kinda ashamed that i am still not over her. I still feel pretty bad about myself. What about you?

[Pegases]

It took me a year. The girl love and sex bombed me, which is ultimately what skewed my perspective of her. But during that time I was so angry that I got back into shape, stopped drinking, stopped porn, took cold showers daily, and focused on my mindset by meditating daily, and learning about female nature. It was very hard to get over her, but without realizing it at the time, using the anger to propel me forward was the best thing I've done in my life. And that's the key, the anger/disappointment, is to be used to your advantage, not wallowed over. Because women only ever regret the bs they put you through after you've become the man than they never thought you would. And once youve become that man, you no longer want them, and that there the beauty in this approach to heartbreak as a man. Most of these women are just lessons, so take it for what it is, and become THE man.

[Guy13]

Two years. Dated but not as good. One year without dating in the 2 years.

[Akam93]

Almost over a year. I went through hell but I got over him and moved on and realized I deserve better.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I'm still lost if he likes me or not.

[Anonymous]

3 years