Unhooking Myself?

[ineedanswerspls]

I’m hooked on my ex, she broke up with me 2 months ago, we’ve had limited contact but whenever we do I initiated it. She was stressed from our relationship plus school and work so I’ve been giving her space while also checking on her, but I haven’t instigated any talks of getting back together. I honestly feel she has moved on and I want to do the same but without just plugging that space where she was with someone else. I honestly feel like I’m grieving the loss of a loved one but I just want to get past it on my own without using someone else to do it. Any suggestions would be appreciated!🙏🏾

[Shamalien]

I’m in the same boat man…just stomach the pain and do whatever you can to improve your life in every area besides romantic relationships, leave that shit on the backburner for a while. Take all that energy you were giving to the relationship and build yourself up

[ineedanswerspls]

Well hopefully we both find peace soon, thanks for the advice!

[Guy13]

Lots of Soccer, yard work, and friends. No narcotic in any form. Time... like a year.

[ineedanswerspls]

Hopefully it doesn’t take a year to get over but I’ll try to lose myself in sports and chores

[Guy13]

I hear ya. Holidays are tough at time. Choose something at www.meetup.com rather than be alone. I met my beginning girlfriend through that website at indoor soccer...