Girlfriend keeps lying to me. Should I end it?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. This is the longest relationship I've had. At the beginning, she was like the perfect girlfriend. But now she keeps lying about everything. My friends all hate her and say she's no good for me. She keeps lying about taking drugs (which I hate) and she lies about things other people have said to me. Then she turns it around and accuses me of lying to her. She acts like I'm stupid to fall for her lies and then when I leave her or try to break up she begs for me back, sometimes even driving to my house in the middle of the night and won't leave until I let her in. What should I do? Should I end it even though I still love her? I'm so confused.

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1 y

Whenever I confront her lies, she gaslights me and says she hasn't been lying. Even though I've caught her in the lie. She manipulates me into believing her.

[Anonymous]

If you won’t listen to your friends, the people who care deeply about your happiness and well-being, then why would you listen to us? You already know how toxic she is. You also know she’s destroyed your trust and is toxic, so you don’t need us to tell you different variations of this. How she was in the past is completely irrelevant in current time when she’s no longer than woman, so it’s unwise to apply that as a factor in your decision making. All I can really say is that ultimately you’ve got to love yourself more than you love her in order to let go.

[Guccigabbana18]

End it. It sounds like she has problems with herself and shouldn't be in a relationship at all until she sorts them out. This is toxic.

[Jdjfjcjj]

You're gut is already telling you what to do but your brains is filled with thoughts saying you've already invested 2 years, you can fix it, she'll change, will I find another girlfriend?, Etc

Let me ask you a question, I'm going to bet that you would be too embarrassed to tell your parents that word for word and you know what they would tell you to do. It's also why you probably chose to submit this question anonymously. If you too embarrassed for others to find out, that ought to tell you that you what you need to do

[Guy13]

I would end it if it is repetitive behavior as it is clear she does not plan to change it. It appears she totally disregards and has no heart for you.

[all_hayl]

Do you want to continue a relationship with a dishonest person (aka someone you can’t trust)?