Would you feel guilty for still ending things/breaking up with someone who abused you constantly but has stopped and is trying to change?

[Anonymous]

Would the foundation be too broken to fix? Would the fact that they waited too long to change be the reason you still want to end things?

[petitedollbabee]

No, once serious damage is done such as abuse, there’s no going back even if they have “changed”. Just because they change doesn’t suddenly wipe away all the abuse and mental suffering you experienced from them.

[Anonymous]

She continuously abused me emotionally and mentally. Yes i love her but i don't know what to do with her anymore. I'm just tired of her constant cheating and abuse

[Opinion Owner]

I still get massive anxiety when i look at her stories or posts she's made on insta.. wondering if she's cheating on me again or what? I wake up at 3am 5am 6am with panick attacks anxiety and been battling depression

[Opinion Owner]

It got so bad i put a bb pew pew shooter in my mouth twice w the safety off & before that still got the scars on my left forearm from the gashes. She caused me so much heartache and pain i don't know what to do anymore. I love her but i can't keep living w her abuse mental and emotional

[guy36]

Is this physical abuse? Or could you elaborate?

[guy36]

The reason i ask is because physical abuse is never okay, and if thats the case never go back.

But there are a lot of variations and probably more to the story if its not physical.

[Anonymous]

No, that person would have been dumped already.