I had a 5 year affair with a sex worker that did sensual massages. She did not have sex with men and was doing this because she was taking care of financially destitute parents. Her prior occupation was quite honorable and we are still friends. ( This is not bullshit )
My wife found out but she never said anything. She would just be aloof at times. This went on for years.
We bought a new house a year back and she insisted her name be on the deed.
We had 2 homes before and she never asked. She's been a stay at home mom 18 years she'd get half anyway.
It recently occurred to me maybe she wanted to be on the deed preparing for a future divorce? The kids are in their last 2 years of high school.
Or is this something women do later in life in case something was to happen to me?
FYI she is an Indian woman living in the USA with me 24 years. Culturally the wives don't leave but my wife has Americanized quite a bit.
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Yeah, sounds like she knew about the unfaithfulness but remained silent and stuck around for the kids.
The time to remedy this situation grows short.
Make haste.
You are toast. As soon as your kids are out of school you will be out on your ear.
What also worries me is that I think my daughter's know. My ex affair partner mentioned something about it but I've been in denial. I'd so, the kids have said nothing about it.
You think she'd want to leave her lifestyle? We live in a 5000 square foot home in texas.
She won;t be leaving her lifestyle, it is you that will be leaving and you will stiill be paying all the bills.