I do not. I will only divorce a woman if she cheats. Because if she does that, she has already left the marriage. It's over.
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I believe there are certain situations where you can divorce, but nowadays divorce is way overused.
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I do not believe in divorce, however, I know it happens.
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Yes, I've seen it. It exists!
Divorce exists. It's real. To the point that it's interwoven into the fabric of legal systems the world over, it made it into the Bible, and even the late Queen Elizabeth II endorsed it for her oldest son. Not something to believe/not believe in.
But, yes, divorce needs to exist. I'm not going to do an exhaustive list of all the reasons we should allow divorce (or the more numerous reasons we shouldn't) but there are times when it's necessary. I think the problem is that divorce is overused and the justification behind it is often flimsier than a house of cards. Just as likely, there are probably too many marriages entered into without the long view or an understanding of just how much work a marriage is and how selfless spouses have to be.
No, I don't. I believe in staying with the same person for my entire life. I don't want unnecessary drama. I consider divorce to be a huge failure. I never want to be with a guy who is more interested in walking away than working on any problems that may arise. It is especially bad when children are involved.
Luckily for me I come from a culture where people usually think the same way. Once you're married, you'll be together until death. I have come across a few facts and my conclusion is that since I'm a Hindu girl I should only marry a Hindu man as then the chances of getting divorced will be the lowest possible in the world (1%). I won't ever think of marrying any other type.
Very few people know this but we don't like to get divorced.
Donβt have to believe in it, itβs a thing. Would I do it, I would try to avoid it as best I could. Because divorce heavily favors the woman in 99% of all situationsβ¦ itβs a headache.. for a guy. Especially if he has got to support a lazy ass motherβ¦ even though he would provide so much better for his kids then the woman would in certain situations. Thatβs why marriage isn't super ideal for men. Iβve always said, long term dating is more beneficial for the man, and marriage is more beneficial for the woman. Why women push so hard for marriage, covering it up as commitment. Itβs just so she can tie his ass by the balls and any move she doesnβt like she can penalize him by taking half his hard earned shit and the house.
Yeah I got married thinking "well there is always divorce if it doesn't work out"... not the best way to go into a marriage but I wasn't really ready to get married at 22... It was kind of thrown onto me and I was alone in another country so I agreed. It lasted until I literally couldn't handle it any more so I left, alone with nothing and came back to Canada.
We need divorce. Many people get married not realizing they weren't meant to be together. Sometimes a marriage can turn toxic and they're miserable being together. There's also domestic violence. A law as archaic and outdated as banning divorce will only damage society
I don't think it should be illegal or anything. In some cases, it makes perfect sense to get divorced.
But I, personally, believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. It's a solemn promise; vow of honor. So I was very, very careful before I tied the knot. I considered it the most important decision I would ever make. And it worked out.No couple should be forced to stay together if it makes them unhappy. I'm totally in favor of the loosened divorce laws that happened in the US back in the 1950s and 60s.
People act like a high divorce rate is bad. I don't see anything wrong with it at all.
I think divorce is the absolute end and solution to failing marriage.
I have my absolutes which are consistently cheating, which is adultery and thatβs in the Bible.
I do not condone domestic violence. I will not live in fear of you.
If I find out you are in molester or worse (killer)Would I get one? That would depend on two factors, what transpired in the relationship and if I were to ever get married in the first place. There are a lot of things that would make me file for divorce, most involve people outside of the marriage.
Of course I believe in it. There are a couple of thousand divorces every in just the US.
When divorce was difficult, it was mostly women who suffered.I believe it is viable under certain circumstances. Abandoning your family, or refusing to have sex with your mate and not fulfilling your marital duties are two that come to mind. I assume adultery is also a good reason.
If he fails to provide her with food and clothing (shelter is implied with clothing).
If he refuses to have regular sexual relations with her (sexual defrauded).
If he physically abuses her or makes attempts on her life.
If he abandons her.What is there to believe?
Isnβt belief about something abstract that canβt be seen and you still believe it?
How can I not believe in divorce when lots of people divorce everyday.
However, I donβt want to get divorced if I ever marry,
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Marrying someone you truly love and staying with them for the rest of your life must be amazing. However, sometimes a marriage doesn't work and there's no other solution, so people are better off separated. It's not a good thing, it shouldn't happen but it's real. So I believe in it. Why keep forcing yourself to be unhappy or in a toxic or even abusive relationship? It makes no sense to me.
If one or both people would be happier with other people, or without their current SO - I would say go for it - but hopefully both parties will have signed a prenup in adv of marrying and tying their assets together - or both parties will lose massively overall when divorce lawyers (the only real winners in that realm) get involved.
yes as long as the reason is actually legitimate and the problem is unfixable i. e. a wife having some other dude's baby but there's none of the extra bullshit like paying alimony, paying child support, losing child custody, losing assets etc.
I believe in divorce the same way I believe in abortion. I hate that it exists and I think we should do everything in our power to protect and strengthen marriages as much as possible, but I understand the importance and value of divorces and think they are a good thing overall for society.
Absolutely if the person isn't good for you, you should fucking leave! (Maybe don't even get married in the first place) but divorce and rejections are a good thing!
Absolutely not. It is an escape option and it is necessary at times but I would try to fight even through thoseβ¦
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