Do you believe in divorce?

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If yes for what reason?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I got married just way too young we were both young and stupid and I initiated the divorce because I knew it wasn't going to work out and I mean I tried everything we went to counseling we went to another counseling and there's just no way I could keep going I was miserable I was unhappy and I mean I tried to make it work I spend an extra probably 6 months being someplace I didn't want to be but I had to try and make it work. Because we just had a kid I do believe if two people do not get along the best thing to do is split go separate ways do it so there's not no bulshit drama with it you start out as friends why can't it in this friends my ex-wife put me through freaking hell over and over.
And one day I get a phone call it's her she said I just want to let you know that I found the guy of my dreams we're going to get married I said congratulations she said you want to talk to him he's right here and I said no thank you she said yes talk to him because he's going to be raising our son too and I said no thank you we'll talk sometime and I could hear him in the background saying no no but all of a sudden I hear hello Steve this is Mike I said nice to meet you Mike congratulations contable thank you and I said to be honest with you I said you don't know how happy you have just made me if he said why is that. And I said oh no reason that you have made me so happy that if I was gay I would give you a fucking blow job right now that's how happy I am and he starts laughing and I start laughing but he didn't understand what I was meaning because I was truly happy because I knew from that moment on she was going to leave me alone and she did just that that was over 18 years ago and right now he's dealing with the same thing I'm sure he can't wait to get that phone call it says hello Mike I found the guy of my dreams LOL

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

If a woman is a cheater she's useless.

Alyssa11 · Accepted Answer

Yes why not? Sometimes people don’t work out or circumstances change. I’ve never been the type to think that once I get married it’s all or nothing. Of course I’m gonna give my all and expect it back and for forbid I ever get divorced. But relationships are between two people and a piece of paper isn’t going to change much in the future.

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

Tough question. Yes. Sometimes it is necessary. I think too many people jump into it tho. Should be a well-thought-out last resort.

Agape93 · Answer

I don't believe in marriage. But if marriage is to be on the table, there must also be a way to end that arrangement if love is gone or it becomes toxic.

Finchie40 · Answer

I don’t marry with the intentions of divorce , so it would come down to what happened to make me want a divorce , mainly cheating , abuse , controlling etc would be some of the main reasons to file for a divorce. It’s comes down to your well being , if you are unhappy in a marriage you have a choice on whether you want to try to fix it or walk away. Love is not forced

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes. If it's not working it's not working. People get in plateau and are taken for granted. One person is suffering more than other. Do the copules therapy for 6 months and you will know to stay or to go.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Sometimes it’s necessary. My exes started to fuck everyone “except” me and were spending my money liberally and irresponsibly. And one turned to a life of crime and drug addiction.

I take divorce extremely seriously though and it’s always an absolute last option. With your children, you are willing to “go down with the ship”. That’s just not the case with a spouse who’s decided not to contribute to the partnership anymore.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Divorce for me would be an absolute last resort as in I've literally tried everything else to save my marriage and it all failed kind of last resort.

As far as I know a divorce has never happened in my family and if I can help it, it won't start with me.

bannacookies · Answer

Yes, it's a good option if things don't work out or somebody becomes abusive in some way, or if they find somebody else "better".

worldscolide · Answer

If their differences are far too great, yes.. If it's because "I'm bored and want to move on" no (80% of divorces are like that by the way)

exitseven · Answer

Yes, when people are unhappy and there is no way to fix it it is not in anyone's best interest to stay in a marriage. Parents who stay together "for their children" really do them no favor either.

TKasap · Answer

Personally, I would want us to try our best to make our marriage last but that's just me. If I'm at my ropes end then yes. In the case of cheating, domestic violence, abusing children or pets, or legal trouble then obviously yes.

Mehzmeh · Answer

Most definitely!! Since I have been divorced twice now. Lol

OnTheLevel · Answer

I believe it's a last resort after every other option to reconcile is exhausted.

nawtee_me · Answer

Been there and done that. She has remarried and we are still good friends. We raised our kids together we just did it separately. Our only unbreakable rule was where the kids were when school started that was where they stayed until school was out. Didn't matter if they were with me or her.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well if one wants to terminate their marriage n have reasons then why not

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

My dad and late mom got a "No-Fault " divorce and I don't believe in divorce

normalice · Answer

I don't fully understand the point of marriage so it makes sense that others would discover they don't understand it, either.

ChiPaPa · Answer

If needed. I'm hoping if I make it that far, that I'd have made a good choice and we don't need it at all.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yes, my refiner loves those wedding bands I sell him

krin_m · Answer

I don't know that there is any thing to believe. It just happens and it is painful. You just deal with the pain and move on.

legalboxers · Answer

if two people can't work it out, there is no reason they should of been married in the 1st place

AndrewMG · Answer

I believe in happiness and I believe in non -violence, If that's not capable in marriage than that's why divorce should exsist.

serious · Answer

I don't believe in marriage, I am never getting married so there is no question of divorce.

jsincal · Answer

I believe in happiness. If that means divorce then so be it.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Yes, my ex wife was banging the landlord and I caught them. He was married too. They never did end up together.

Jerre · Answer

If necessary, yes. A cheating spouse, fall out of love

Sidfawy · Answer

Yes why not, there no specific reason but most common reason is cheating and that csn you have a second chance if one of em do it again there is no readon to stay together.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes.  Adultery Inappropriate interaction, boundary crossing with the other sex.

qwert1234 · Answer

Yes. People change. Love change. Why keep being together if there's no more spark?

Waldoe · Answer

Yes... divorce a "cheater" they will never change  divorce a "beater"...  "Liar"

MrJMM · Answer

So are you asking if divorcing is real? Or are you asking if divorcing is a good thing or a bad thing?

Snakeyes7 · Answer

If it’s as common as a coin flip or more for every marriage that begins, I’d have to believe it at that point.

Guardian45 · Answer

I don't like or "believe" in it, but it is "mandatory" to have when marriages blow up, for any number of reasons!

msc545 · Answer

Considering it has to be preceded by marriage - yes. Except I don't believe in marriage either.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

No, absolutely not. I am old fashioned. If you are Christian as well you should be against it.

Hanrej · Answer

Absolutely. Marriage is often based on lies and deception. Too many enter into it on false pretences.

dudeinohio · Answer

disn't really. But I went through one. Not my choice.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Yes. She cheats. Does anything that would cause me or kids bodily harm.

Flower7 · Answer

Yes if adultery is involved.

karaspara · Answer

Yes because I don't want people to be miserable

paradiseonearth93 · Answer

Yeah. If it’s not working get out.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I believe in it but I don’t want it

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Erm yeah I do as well I’m divorced.

OddBeMe · Answer

Nope. Nor spousal rape. Neither exist.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't. It is scary.

jasco · Answer

No but it's needed sometimes

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I don't believe in divorce except for cheating

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

No fault divorces should be rejected

Dingsbums · Answer

Money

In_Trance · Answer

Yes I do

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

paigefaithful · Answer

Yes, definitely

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