How come an ex would use his child against me?

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The day I broke up with my ex, thankfully he’s not in the picture no more. It brought me uncomfortable feelings of him thinking about making a point across saying that his child might’ve not wanted me as a role model. If he also said his son’s mother was hiding things behind her children’s back and then my ex comes back to say she is doing really good. What gives?

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Sounds like immature jabs to make you feel bad. No more, no less. He is doing it to make you hurt by the sound of it. I am taking that the breakup was not an amicable one. I can tell because this is what a childish person would do to try to get that one last jab in or last word.

I would just ignore him and block him from your life. Given the opportunity, he sounds like the type of guy that will keep doing this. It is seriously immature. Good on you for getting out of this one. Bullet dodged considering he is weaponizing a child to a degree.

I doubt he really think this or he wouldn't have dated you in the first place. Bringing another person into a child's life is a big deal. Now, that isn't to say he is irresponsible considering what child he is acting like.

I think the best thing is to move on and get him completely out of the picture. If that means blocking his number or on social media, so be it. The faster you do, the faster you can forget him. Just don't get in the mud with him and stoop to his level.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

He is being immature and very bitter by the sounds of it.

DARKCLOUD1945X · Accepted Answer

Someone is looking for a way out of a mistake, if you're fighting that much there is nothing you can say or do that going to fix this problem. Thinking that marriage and having a child is a fix it is a gigantic mistake because the child is the most damaged in that relationship. Pick up the pieces, find the right person.

In_Trance · Accepted Answer

Because you're allowing him to. Stop communicating and block all contact

Iron_Man · Answer

Not good

How come an ex would use his child against me?

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