My ex is telling people my child isn’t his?

[WinCx3d]

My ex has told his family that i sleep around and my unborn baby is not his. I want to get a pre natal dna test done because i want to prove him wrong. I feel like i should wait until i have the baby but my due date is in June and i want to clear my name
I can’t wait until June for the dna test. Am i being childish or not?

[meetkitty123]

Well get off the sofa and get your booty over to that laboratory. As long as it's a test that's done through your arm and not your tummy and you don't have to worry about miscarriage then you're not being childish get the blood work early this way once the baby's born you have proof the child is his and you can hit him up with child support immediately the same day that baby is born.

Now also keep in mind I don't know where you're standing or what country you're in or what state you're in but once you get that lab work done you can't go back and be like oh no this baby is in his he's going to have every right to sign that birth certificate and therefore that means that baby is 50% his and again I don't know how you feel about that certain States if you're not married to him he has no rights to your baby

So I quite frankly say it depends on you depends on what you want and our childish if this really bothers you if you want the man to be a part of your child's life and you want to child support then you need the DNA test

Me personally if I can't stand the man and the man doesn't want to be a father and it's going to be a hassle and he's going to be a deadbeat dad in the sense where he just honestly doesn't want to be a dad he's going to cause more harm to the child being that he doesn't want to be present he's going to hurt the child emotionally by being a half present or not present at all type of father then I would rather forget the child support let him continue to say he's not the dad and go on with my life he could be a sperm donor therefor this way I don't have to be looking over my shoulder with someone trying to take my child from me later down the road.

Split custody with an ass to treat your kid mediocre or like crap is a real pain in the ass.

So if I was you I would really reconsider everything what kind of dad would he be is it worth him being the father of your child does he even want to be the daddy what do you need do you need the child support can you go without the child support would you rather have him sign off as if he was a sperm donor think everything over carefully because once you prove he is the daddy you're stuck with him for 18 long years and in some countries it could be up to 21 years or until the child finishes college so good luck.

Hey I'm all for daddy's being Daddy's and Mommy's being mommy's but that's when mommy's and daddies are good parents who both are equally positive role models for their children but when one or the other or scum it's not worth having them in the child's life and that comes from a girl who was raised by her daddy because her mother was Scum. And currently I have full custody and both my children because their father ended up hitting them and abusive physically and mentally he ended up being a scumbag.

[fonduegirl]

You should get that test ASAP. He's just whore shaming you because you dumped his ass and he doesn't want to pay the bloody child support.

[worldscolide]

LOL No, you're definitely not the childish one. Get the DNA test done. It should shut him up.

Honestly with the rampant levels of paternity fraud, i would suggest DNA testing be mandatory. But thats me. Reason being is its close to 60% of men who pay child support, are paying for children that aren't theirs.

I am betting you're not one of those so the test should make him face the truth.

[EmbraceThePain]

I mean, I don't really know.

Do you sleep around? Maybe he/she isn't his child

Maybe he is being childish and you should just ignore and be responsible when dealing with him even though I recommend not having too much contact with him and moving on if you feel that is the right decision.

[hahahmm]

You're not childish but be careful. A guy like this is the same type of guy who could pretend to be nice and 'accidentally' put rat poison in your drink or something.

[DJB72]

Prenatal tests carry the risk of miscarriage.

Wait for June and rub his lying face in it.

[WinCx3d]

I’m getting the one where i get dna taken from my arm instead of my stomach

[DJB72]

Good luck with it. Just bear in mind most families want to believe their little lamb so you may just face accusations of rigging the results. Plus he's got to agree to be tested too.

Wait until after the baby's born and a court can compel testing

[Guardian45]

Wake up and smell the roses! Even if he is the father, he'll deny it and try to escape supporting you. Get the DNA test asap and NAIL the bastard for child support!

[hahahmm]

Yeah, but I bet you the guy already has 3 kids and he works a low end job so it won't be a lot of support. I know a case where the mom did NOT want the dad involved in any way because he was a drug addict & put all his energy into getting drugs. So she'd rather have zero connection and zero money than the possibility of him trying to worm his way into the kid's life later on.

[hahahmm]

And yeah she was a tard to get involved with the guy in the 1st place but she grew out of the issues he still had.

[Guardian45]

Yes, that's common. I see it all the time!

[hahahmm]

It's the kids and the grandparents who have to pick up the pieces of bad decisions. A lot of grandparents didn't realize that by giving their own kid tons of 'freedom' it would later turn into them having to do half/all of the raising of the grandkid 20+ years later.

[Guardian45]

Trudat

[sheikalana]

You're not being childish at all he's the one being an asshole. Get that dna test ASAP:

[Anonymous]

If I was you I would probably do the same thing and try to prove that it is his

[Guy13]

Blood 🩸 Test

[Anonymous]

You're just awesome