How can I break the news to my husband that the child he thinks is his is not his? Possible consequences?

[TheLovelyWoman]

My two oldest boys are my husband, but my youngest and only girl is not.

[Anonymous]

You tell him. It might not be easy but you have to be honest w him. If he ask for a divorce then I think you should honor his wishes. That is the ultimate betrayal. Cheating in itself is bad but to have evidence of your infidelity pity around day-to-day, that’s even worse. I’m not trying to put your daughter down but you get what I’m saying. Would you want to know the same in reverse if he had a child w someone else? He doesn’t deserve this, neither do your two sons. Either does your daughter if you’re going to continue to live this life that he’s her father.

[ProbablyClueless]

I feel like you should probably look into whether the child is actually his through some kind of secret DNA test or whatever.

Do you know who the father is?

[NoDecision]

Well, you better tell him soon or his resentment might be worse if he finds out later and that you kept it from him. My own question is, why would you keep that from someone? Lies in a relationship is a no-no.

[TheLovelyWoman]

It’s not as easy. pm me

[Paige90]

Did you have an affair? Does the biological father know he has a child?

[TheLovelyWoman]

Yes. He knows. Check your pm

[Jennz6]

The baby daddy doesn’t know

[jazzy34]

He probably already knows. If he doesn’t, he’ll probably figure it out eventually. Who knows? The father of your daughter may show up to your house one day, wanting to see her.

[TheLovelyWoman]

Pm me I want to ask you something personally.

[jazzy34]

No. Ask here.

[TheLovelyWoman]

Only me and her biological father know. My husband doesn’t know.

[TheLovelyWoman]

My husband won’t know unless she started having health issues and they tested her blood. She may or may not have health issues. Only time will tell.

[jazzy34]

As I mentioned above, the father of your daughter may show up to your house one day, wanting to see her. You’ll be busted. Therefore, I think it’s best to tell your husband the truth.

[jazzy34]

Exactly. So, it’s best to tell him. Pretty soon, things won’t start adding up.

[TheLovelyWoman]

Her biological used to live with us. He lives only 20 mins away and comes by often.

[TheLovelyWoman]

She knows him except she doesn’t know that he is her biological father.

[Anonymous]

“I should warn you, sometimes when babies come early, they’re black.”

[msc545]

Possible consequences that hopefully occur are that he divorces your ass and you get no money for child support, you cheater

[Arcadian222]

How old is she? And why do you think NOW is the time?

[wkhan_87]

Why you need to break this news ,
Just keep it secret forever

[serious]

Well, you have to tell the truth eventually.

[SarahP080106]

Definitely verify before telling him anything

[Jennz6]

Don’t tell him

[Ironco]

I suggest you change your username.

[FenixG45]

Do you want to divorce?

[Bklynbadboy12]

You should get a DNA test first

[Jordi2525]

It depends, how old is the girl?

[eagle1951]

leave it alone

[Matadorius]

Just tell the truth

[MasterKS]

Give him shock!!!