Why is my girlfriend allowed to breakup with me but I’m not allowed to break up with her?

[Anonymous]

So she can vocalize when she’s not happy and can say she wants to end the relationship but when I say I’m not happy and want to end things I’m being over dramatic

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Well quick update she pulled back the power she broke up for like the 5th time

[Anonymous]

okay and why are you allowing her to act like that? why are you staying? do you like the toxicity? because that'd probably be the only reason to stay in a relationship like that. either get out or don't complain. because there's things you can actually do to help your situation.

[Asker]

I stay because of my image I’m extremely protective of my image I refused to get defamed and trashed

[Opinion Owner]

then i guess you're stuck. not sure why you'd continue to be unhappy but alright.

[Asker]

Well she pulled back the power she broke up again for like the 5th time

[Gingerbread_GB]

Because you allow it. You can call her dramatic too if she's constantly threatening to end the relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah that happens. Pretty frequently

[Gingerbread_GB]

hate to say it but this happens in a lot of relationships. The man is more tolerant towards the woman so she start saying more and more extreme things expecting you to allow it. When you say it, she doesn't feel obligated to tolerate you.

[Anonymous]

She likes to be in control