Why did my girlfriend break up with me for no reason?

[Anonymous]

We weren’t fighting, nothing seemed wrong, and then out of nowhere she ended things. No explanation, just “I need space” or “it’s not you.” Has this happened to anyone else? Why do people leave when everything seems fine?

[Amy10223]

People leave because something is up. They can tire of the relationship, they fall out of love, they find someone else, or something happened to them that they can't tell you, and they decide parting is best. Whatever it is, it's better to accept it, as hard as that may be. Time will heal you, hopefully you will find someone else who appreciates and loves you, and you will be happy, or happier.

[j0han]

Well, don’t listen to that stupid girl itsannalee. She’s doing what many women do avoiding responsibility and guilt tripping you rather than giving advice.

One likely reason could be this you were probably too nice, too caring and gave her too much attention. Perhaps even to the point where she started controlling you or trying to influence your decisions. And when a woman feels like she has full control, she often loses interest and respect.

It’s not your fault,, you just didn’t know how the game was being played against you.

Next time a woman says “It’s not you, it’s me, just reply with I know it’s you. You’re the problem. That way, you shift the power dynamics and don’t let her guilt-trip you. Then, walk away and focus on yourself

And never ask a fish how to catch a fish.

[strateguy632]

She was dating another guy same time and when she felt secure with him, she dumped you.

[itsannalee]

Some people are tired of theirs partners behavior, like manipulative, selfish, etc.


Actually women aren’t easily to move on or ending relationships with their partners. Because most of women afraid to start something new if they break up with their boyfriend. If they ask to break up it’s likely they already planned it from long time and gave you chances to be better but you keep avoiding the chances she gave. That’s why she left you.

[Summeroflove]

Well this happens. Has there been indicators or red flags you missed? Maybe she did something and feels guilty. Maybe she just simply lost interest and broke things off. It could be many reasons.

Allow some time and come back to talk later. For now accept the fact it’s over and allow yourself to grieve. Most people aren’t honest about why they broke up. If she all the sudden is with someone new that’s a good indicator.

[ArrowheadSW]

Well the plus side is that she didn't fabricate some nonsense to blame on you, in order to justify leaving. I have one friend whose girlfriend said that she was breaking up with him because there was a rock concert that she wanted to go to and he didn't want to go. I told him if she is that shallow to break up with him for that reason, she did him a favor by leaving.

Anyway, my point is, sometimes people just move on and don't really know what to say. I know a lot of people on this thread say "there's got to be a reason". I guess so, but sometimes they just feel the need to move on and don't want to share their life with someone at that point in their life.

[dustybiker2]

People have issues and they don't share them. This happens. Don't blame yourself for her choices. Hurt for a bit and heal then find someone new. Just be sure to give the new girl a fair shot at not letting you down. The other girl was a completely different person.

[OneViewpoint]

If you think there was no reason I have a bridge I’d like to sell you.

There’s a reason. She just didn’t want to have a debate about it. Her mind is made up.

What does the reason matter. Same result no matter why.

Chad showed up with a 10” cock. You were clueless. She decided she’s a lesbian. She got a job in Tokyo. Her ex got in touch. You were controlling. All the same outcome. She’s done.

[WonderingManII]

I don't know. But once a girl does something like that to me, I don't want anything to do with her anymore! I hope you heal soon. But you don't want her anymore. She just showed you what a bad person she really is!

[Razp_Sorbet]

there's always a reason. She probably told you. There were probably so many warning signs that you didn't even acknowledge.

[Reem12345reem]

she obviously needs a break/work on herself or she finds u draining for her bc u complain a lot?

[On_cloud_wine]

You weren’t the one for her. Be thankful she didn’t continue to lead you on

[Flower7]

True, leaving is better than wasting someone’s time.

[Flower7]

It was not for “no reason”. Sounds like maybe she lost interest, but that is a reason.

[Miristheiss]

She has been talking to some other guy and wants him now.

[DrPepper12]

NARRATOR: "She did in fact break up with him for a reason..."

[Staximus]

Either your bank account or your dick wasn't big enough, or lack of emotional connection, or she's having mental problems.

[CuriousMufuxka]

You realized that she actually didn't exist.

[robocop666]

she realised she did not like you and wanted an end.

[zoeyby]

If it's not suitable, don't delay each other's time

[Nikki1989]

There is always a reason.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It wasn’t for no reason, I promise you that.

[LiamJHayden]

It was not working for her.

[beefcakebradybatson]

She wanted another boy.

[Abbiii]

Ment to be