When did you realize that you have moved on?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Today is 28th April, 4 years ago today I met my ex.

I thought I would find it hard to go through this day, but I don’t even care. 9 months after break up I feel like I FINALLY moved on!

It’s like a very distant memory now, not causing any special emotions in me. I feel perfectly fine and don’t even like to waste my time thinking about this topic. Cause I am enjoying myself now and looking forward to the future adventures.

Congratulate me, I think I have moved on!!!

What an amazing feeling.

[DizzyDesii]

A lot of the time, i emotionally move on before we even breakup. So by time we breakup, im already over it. But then there are times when i am blindsided. Even then, i move on within a week or less. I dont care if I've dated someone for weeks, months or years. I just can't stay feenin over them after about a week. there's actually two dudes who i never dated who i always wanted to date but i didn't want to ruin our friendship. I haven't seen them in years but they are the only two i can't seem to get over and maybe thats because i never had them. But as for the ones i’ve dated, nah, on to the next

[DizzyDesii]

Even if i was madly in love with someone, the feeling just goes away very quickly once we’ve established we’re over. So yea, about a week to move on

[Paris13]

Congrats, Sweetheart!!! I know This was NOT EASY. I have Somewhat Moved On from a Four YEAR Relationship but We still Keep in Touch at Times. There is Not One day that Goes By I don't Think of Him But By Breaking it Off and Sadly I DID VENT NONSTOP FOR MONTHS, He finally let me Know he Still Loves me.(I know He Held Resentment for Breaking if off) Suddenly I Backed OFF like I thought "We may Reunite again" and I think I got Scared. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[Googlemyahoo]

My last year of Highschool I started dating someone and I thought I’d marry her. She was two years younger. I went to a local university figuring she’d do the same. She went away to school & cheated but she’d come home and want it to be like it was meanwhile she had a boyfriend at her school. My friends were furious calling me whipped and I was. I used to whine about it all the time.

Then one night I hooked up with a girl. Thats all it took to realize it was time to move on. If I truly cared I wouldn’t have done that.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's always a great feeling to look back on something you may of once thought is the end of the line, but then be looking back at that moment and just not give a shit anymore. It's lost it's sway. The feeling of loss might actually feel like a win after some time has passed.

[Pinay_ako]

When I hear a song, or come across a smell or watch a movie that used to make me bawl like a baby because we used to watch it together and now I don’t feel anything or if I see him again and I don’t feel any yearning emotion, I know I’ve moved on. Or if I hear he’s with someone else and how happy he is, and I’m actually happy for them.

[Cathy7734]

It seemed like every 10 minutes I would check my cell phone to see if he texted me. Then it was several times a day. I told him I'm going to delete his number but he can reach me via email.

So every day I would check my email to see if he wrote to me. Then it was every other day. Then it was once a week. About once a month I still check to see if he has written me.

That's how I know I've moved on.

[NathanDavis]

I always did... right away, never looked back

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How?

[NathanDavis]

well, we ended in good terms, it was mutual decision... so I guess it was easier to just go on, knowing that it would be alright

[Genie23]

When he stopped coming into my mind or barely came into my mind and if he did, when he did... I felt absolutely nothing. No sadness. No happiness. Just nothing. I found myself happy again and started looking forward to new things in life

[Spade_01]

I broke up with my ex about an year ago. The relationship had drained me so much that it didn't take me more than 3 months to get over her.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Don’t you miss her sometimes?

[Spade_01]

I hope that she's okay and doing well with her life. I can look past the toxicity we had in our relationship. I do think of her at times but don't necessarily miss her since a lot had happened at the end which made me part ways. It is very hard for me to leave someone once I'm with them but the situations compelled me to do so. Be that as it may, it's life and we're not here to stay forever :D

[chicosuave]

it took me about a year to move on completely. when you dont have any pain whatsoever or she is never in your mind anymore. you dont dream about her anymore she is completely off my life then thats when i new i got over her.

[Anonymous]

That’s probably because he was average. Or mediocre. And his bed-game was mediocre.

This wouldn’t happen with Chad or Brad. Or BiG D guy.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/yqdvXSUNiAU

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Haha, nah girl. He was amazing! I felt like a loser for losing him, cause he was like the one of the best males out there. The one every girl dreams about. The girl who will be able to settle down with him will be lucky. He was a total hottie and he knew that. I am not the one easily interested in men, he hooked me like he was the only man alive in the world. All other men felt like females to me. He was the epitome of masculinity.

For 6 months I was laying in bed unable of getting up and thinking I would just die.

But now, I moved on not because he was anything less than what I describe, but because I realized I am quiet sexy myself and there are quiet a few other top males on sexual attractiveness chain willing to be next to my side.

[Opinion Owner]

OHH , well that’s interesting

[Opinion Owner]

Send a picture of the guy lol 🤣🤣🤣
I want to see. I think you’re Lie’n
Send it through Twitter

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I can tell you confidently that I am sure, 99 percent of girls here have never f*cked a guy that hot and on top of that, he was my fiance. His pics are staying with me. You’ve gotta trust me with this one or just let it go, because how he looks like is noone’s business on here.

All you need to know is, after him, I didn’t even know who to look at because all men looked like a downgrade.

I am sure I’ve had one of the sexiest man alive.

[Opinion Owner]

Did he look like this with super deep voice?

[Anonymous]

When nothing she said to me had any affect on me anymore. When I love a woman I live to put a smile on her face. When whether she smiled or not regardless of what was said. When I didn't care what she thought. That's when I knew I was over her. I still wish her well though.

[Anonymous]

i get what you're saying and i congratulate you, but if you truly did move on you wouldn't even remember this particular day is today... i'm just saying. still hoping the best for you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have exceptionally good memory about dates. I even remember the birthdays if my grade 7 classmates who I have never seen after that.

[PointTaken]

Congratulations!! I'm still in a separation but it already feels like I've moved on some. Especially with some things she's said to me makes it "why am I still dealing with it" kind of mood. Lol

[YourExLover69]

Was that your ldr? Online relationship or real life?

And congratulations... Life goes on. We have to be strong.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I feel lazy to write about it. All I can say is that it was a real relationship and we lived together.

[Nikki1989]

I can move on real fast, almost instantly in some cases.

[msc545]

you have not moved on since you are STILL talking about him!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s the only sexual partner I’ve had, when I encounter sex questions, who can I refer if not that experience?

[msc545]

Pick yourself.

[art84]

It's hard to move on but good for you for doing so.

[Anonymous]

You're combination of intelligent & strong women. Congratulations queen 🥰

[EricSummer]

Congratulations! Choose well for the next one...

[EmyyWolf]

Choose well? What with my Crystal ball or my tarot cards? Or should I summon my mind reading power?

[exitseven]

Good for you. It sucks , I know.

[LiamJHayden]

I move on when it ends.

[Sparkie460]

Congratulations. Good for you.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

When you changed, your #.

[EmyyWolf]

LMAOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

I always did