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I ended it. We never blocked each other, we never reached out each other too. We never talked in 2 years.
He's my only ex that I've never talked to again. The fact we didn't have "how are you" conversation is very sad (for me)
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He moved on and doesn't find you interesting enough to care how you're doing. It happens. Sorry.
I left him. He might be mad at me and except me to reach out to him first because I ended it?
MAYBE HE thinks the same thing about me. I left him and I never asked how he's doing in 2 years
who left who doesn't matter... he moved on and you're old news.
I moved on first
No, you didn't because you're still asking about "how to interpret this"... he's not asking that question. Because you're not relevant. Because he's moved on.
He's a man who I tasted his semen. He licked me whole body for hours. I think it is normal that me sometimes thinking about him. I did move on and I don't want to back to him. We also didn't know if he's thinking the same thing.
No, all of us know he's not thinking the same thing. He never asked "how are you" because he doesn't' care. All the people answering you aren't the ones in denial. You are. Forget he ever existed. I can't even remember the first names of everyone whose body I licked for hours so that's not all that big a milestone. It clearly wasn't meaningful enough to him go care to ask "how are you" afterwards. How long ago did you break up?
We broke up December 2021. It's been a year and half
OH yeah definitely then. It's been a year and a half? He hasn't asked? In guy years (like dog years but different conversion) that's the equivalent of somebody mentioning your name in mixed company and he's like "Why's that name familiar?"
On my Facebook, He can see I have a relationship. He might stalked not not stalked. He's not the upper hand here. I ended it and never talked to him again. I do think about him, but he doesn't know that. He knows I moved on
You didn't move on. You keep focusing on why you don't talk. HE moved on, because he's all kinds of "who is that?" Plenty of people have ended it with me over the years (especially with multiple deployments). I couldn't even give you the first name of three of them. Past is past. Not relevant. I don't think about them.
Lol Do you speak English? I didn't understand half of your comment. Definitely then what? In guy years?
Which part? I'll explain in a more clear manner if you wish, otherwise, it doesn't matter. The bottom line is you're unremarkable to him and he's moved on, but you're still fixated on him. It's desperate. You've above that. I know you are. I just wish YOU knew you were.
So far EVERY guy come back in some way. Honestly, even one night stands reached out to me years later. He's the only one. He might move on. I respect that. I did value him so IT IS SAD "FOR ME" not talking to him again. Since he moved on and I don't want to be with him, there is no point for me to reach out to him
Every other guy, yeah, not him, no. That's why it bothers you. As you said "he's the only one." You're also right that there is no point for you to reach out to him. I'm proud of you for seeing that. That's kind of a big deal.
But again, people sometimes even stay in contact with the one who we just went a couple of dates with. Or just one night stand. For example, there is a Swedish guy I went to (1) date with, we hooked up. We never saw each other again. He reached out to me 4 years later.
Even my ex didn't value me, we did SHARE intimacy for some period of time. We did raw sex for example. He might not value me, but that doesn't the change the sex we shared intimacy. So it is sad, from my side
I MIGHT nothing special to him. But still, him giving me forehead kisses, cuddles, watching movies, singin songs together, kissing each other...
I've done what with probably 80% of the women I've been with. Not to diminish what you had. Maybe it was very moving at the time. I'm just saying...
He not care about me at all or he just respects my decision so stay in no contact. I'll never know.
THat is correct. But really, even if you asked and he answered, you'll never know, as he could just be giving you lip service. We don't always get closure in life. We rarely do, actually. This appears to be one of those times.
Lol I'm not telling the thing we had UNIQUE. I never said that. Those things we shared bare minimum. But still sad to not even friendly "how are you" text.
What did you mean by "It was very moving at the time"?
I left him without closure. Probably this eats me out. If I would give him closure and talked it out, things might be different. He was telling me "what am I not doing for you baby" but I still left.
At the time it could have been magical for both of you. It's not something that held lasting sway over him though.
It IS sad to not even be friendly. I've been there before. I'm sorry for your pain. Coming to terms with it though and accepting it is the first step to getting better though. I'm proud of you. I know you can do this.
What does "it was very moving at the timel mean? Lol Also held lasting sway over him?
"it was good while it lasted"... that better?
He was also saying to me "You probably had better sex in your life" "He's not the best in bed" or "he's not handsome enough for me" "what he's not doing it for me" so I might hurt him by leaving him or he didn't care I don't know
Ok. He said those things. What's that got to do with anything? You don't mean anything to him anymore. Maybe he's the best you had, maybe he's not. He doesn't care if he is/was/isn't. He expends no mental energy thinking about you.
Lol but HOW DO YOU KNOW he might still remember me and not reach out to me like I do.
Because he had a year and a half to do so if you mattered that much. You guys had a nice thing. It's over. He wants nothing to do with you. It happens.
this is worthless. Move on
Why worthless?