If you are divorced, are you happier than when you were married? ? Do you have second thoughts about getting divorced?

[NudeBella]

[Sam161]

I've been divorced for 20 years, at first I felt hurt she left me for our guy. I raised my son so she could go out. About 10 years in dollar convenience I let her stay at our home cuz it was closer to her work than where she was living. Yes I wish we were still married it was a very good year and a half that she stayed with us. But one day she crossed the line. And I remembered why she left. And I was glad that we weren't married. I remembered the last days when she threatened to punch my 85-year-old mother in the face. When she was meeting another guy that was separated from his wife and handing me divorce papers at the same time. She didn't have a bad life with me I never cheated on her I never asked for her to do anything. We had a good home yes I'm glad we're divorced. All I want to do now is wish her third future husband all the luck in the world.

[KrakenAttackin]

She divorces each man and collects more cash and prizes.

[Sam161]

@KrakenAttackin well all she got from the first husband and me with children third husband I think he's got a little more money under his belt so she might be after money now I think I should warn him

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't warn him, he is a fool for marrying her.

[Guardian45]

Would you be happier than being verbally and physically abused?

[Guardian45]

Would you have second thoughts about divorcing?

[Irishgirl02]

I dont understand your question. Do you consider domestic abuse are fickle reasons?
I'm sure most women who file for divorce in the US aren't the victims of domestic abuse.

[Guardian45]

@Irishgirl02. I was.

[Guardian45]

Thanks for MHG!

[Anonymous]

I'm very happy in my marriage. I can't imagine being divorced.

[Sam161]

The worst thing about divorce is if you have young children my wife divorced me when my son was only going on 4 years old. I told takes on two children to be taken away from there father or stepfather and Mom seeing a whole another guy makes it really hard for the children it's not what I wanted and I tried very hard to reassure my son that I wasn't going to follow in his mom's footsteps and start dating again

[KrakenAttackin]

@Sam161 Good man. Women are fantastically selfish by nature. Women do not care if they destroy their husbands and children, as long as they get what they want.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sam161 I'm sorry to hear that. Seems a lot women put themselves and their new partner a head of their kids.
My uncle was done like that. His ex was cheating on him while he was at work for a year only admitting to it when she caught an STD. Turned out she was even taking their 3 year old to the other guy's house to go cheating or was dumping the child on my grandmother coming back a few hours late with bogus excuses. Then it turned out she was beating the child and social services were called. Then this new guy that she was cheating with isn't allowed to be aline with children. She also tried throw out false allegations of rape, bullying, stalking, harassment etc when things didn't go right at a social services meeting. Horrible person but talking to her you'd think butter wouldn't melt in her mouth.

[KrakenAttackin]

Just wait until you get bored princess. You will take the house, car, kids, retirement, etc.

[Opinion Owner]

@KrakenAttackin Catholic I'm afraid, not American. Though If he left me I absolutely would. Maybe not the kids

[KrakenAttackin]

Do snt mean jack.

[Opinion Owner]

@KrakenAttackin does to me.

[PointTaken]

Right now I'm happier. Toward the end it was kinda depressing. I'm not finalized yet but will get there.

[Anonymous]

My divorce was like a ton of lead weight lifted off of my chest.

[NudeBella]

That's good to know. I'm not married but I have a friend who s thinking about her. This might help her.

[Opinion Owner]

For women divorce is a gift. She gets to leave with cash and prizes.

[Sam161]

In my divorce we didn't own a house the car I already owned so separation and divorce really didn't give her much yes I had to provide her a vehicle but she had a leased vehicle during our marriage and she just carried that out until the lease ran out which means when she blew the speakers up and wrecked it that came out of my pocket to fix before I returned it to the company released it from. Like I said before honestly people told me after we are going through divorce it's cheaper to keep her and I think that that is true.

[Sam161]

The way the courts support women in a divorce is ridiculous. If she is supported and the husband is not hurting her and she leaves a marriage I believe she shouldn't be awarded any support. But the court always sides with the female I had one child to her she was collecting $600 a month for 10 years that went on. My son had nothing to show for any of the money being used towards him I bought the clothes I still took care of him and when he turned 13 he wanted to live with me. She didn't put up a fight.

[Andres77]

Glad I did it

[Andres77]

For me, the questioning I should I or should I not, and that anxiety that comes with it was all during the marriage. Once I actually decided to go through with it, it turned out to be such a relief.. of course, there was drama, but things are much more calm now, and we are finding our new normal without the drama but in separate houses.