My ex was stalking my instagram profile with his fake account, my account wasn’t private. So, I made my account private. Does he get it personal?

[Anonymous]

In general, I don’t use my insta as private but I don’t want him to watch my stories whenever he wants. Does the way I make my account private boost his ego?

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Why can’t I get an answer? Actually it is a short question..

[MementoMori777]

If anything it will stomp on his ego, it's like a "get off my shit" type of thing when you turned it private, I think you are putting too much thought and effort into this and you should just continue on your moving on process

[Asker]

Absolutely, my actual aim was get him out of my head when I post anything. I didn’t want to think whether he would watch my stories or not.

[MementoMori777]

Then don't check who watches your stories, don't give him any form of activity cause it could motivate him more, let him see it and let him do whatever he wants, if you should no form of signs that he's getting to you, he will feel like more shit

[Asker]

Do you mean that I shouldn’t use my account as private saying “let him see” ?

[MementoMori777]

No then that will seem weird and that will feed his ego, just leave it the way it is now cause you already made it private, if you are gonna switch it back, don't do it now, do it later on at some other time, make it look natural lol

[Asker]

You’re right. However, you are saying “ Don’t give him any form of activity” but you said before that “The way you made your acc private stomp his ego” . :/

[MementoMori777]

Well yea but that's cause it was a form of rejecting his snooping, when you switch it back to public It will just look like you are playing games and still thinking of him and you are playing these games to get in his head, men aren't stupid and some assume egotistical shit, you turning it public can make it look like you are trying to get his attention.

[MementoMori777]

When you turned it private it seems more of a "stop looking at my shit" turning it public again would make it look like "is he still looking at my account" comprendo? Lol

[Asker]

Well, then I’ve made a right decision turning private because I don’t wanna have questions like “Does also this account belong to him?” When I saw him watching me, also liking my story, I felt good at first but then the other day I felt my energy was low.

[MementoMori777]

Well I don't know about the energy leak you had there but as long as you casually and naturally turn it public again then he should suspect a thing, but it has to be a good while from now I think

[Asker]

Well , actually I don’t think making it public til I get him out of my head. If he wants to appear somehow, it shouldn’t have been like opening a fake account and watching story. It is too childish.

[MementoMori777]

This whole sticking around after a breakup is childish lol

[Asker]

Absolutely :)

[MementoMori777]

Indeed, well hope you manage to avoid him completely I guess, best day to you anon 💯🙌

[Asker]

Thank you so much✨