Is there a nice way to break up with someone or a way that will hurt them less?

[Anonymous]

[dynamicyandere]

Keep it simple and concise.


1. Brief Gratitude
2. Brief Explanation
3. Brief Conclusion
4. Brief Farewell


Example…


1. “I’ve enjoyed our time together.”
2. “But, I don’t see us working out long term.”
3. “So, I’ve decided it’s best to go our separate ways.”


They’ll likely want more closure, but you just need to be firm with the decision.


4. “I didn’t want it to come to this. I’m sorry. Good bye, [Name].”


Then you leave (if in person) or hang up (if over the phone).


Done. ✅

[ProbablyClueless]

In my experience, the worst part of being broken up with is when the woman (I assume men do this too, but I've never dated a man) starts insulting my intelligence. Being broken up with sucks, but it's really not that bad. What IS that bad is when the person starts trying to bullshit you instead of giving it to you straight.

[kylee2437]

You can’t really help how someone reacts to a break up. Break ups are not supposed to be a “happy” moment, but it’s a moment for you to explain your side and they will just have to deal with how you feel. They can’t change that.

[Pinay_ako]

Just be honest. Nothing can break it gently but at least be honest

[berisky23]

Sit down, have an honest conversation. Listen to how they feel, explain how you feel and that's about as nice as I feel it can be.
It's never a nice situation, but being a decent person and putting time and effort in this way goes a long way.

[slatyb]

The nicest thing you can do is end it as soon as you know it's not going to work. There other person will be disappointed, but that's life. They'll get over it.

[MementoMori777]

well technically a bad breakup can be worse cause there's more negative emotions involved, but the heartbreak will be their either way, trying to do it the best way possible is a good thing tho

[Shamalien]

There is no way to do it without hurting them. What you should do though, is tell them that you will always be willing to talk with them if they want closure or need to discuss their feelings.

[mommymommymommy]

Nope, you're literally telling them you don't like them anymore. There's no "good" way to let them down. Which is why it's funny when ex's try to "stay friends"

[riverrat3]

Be honest

[Anonymous]

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