Have you ever been in a relationship that ended like this?

[Anonymous]

Where the two of you don't officially break up, you just mutually realize that it's going nowhere and stop talking to eachother.

No closure. No heartfelt conversation. No goodbyes. It's just over.

(And I'm not talking about being ghosted)

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For example: you hang out, everything went fine, but afterwards neither of you contact the other again

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Dizzy you have me blocked, so I can't respond to you. But that kind of shit sounds familiar lol. Thanks for sharing

[Anonymous]

I’ve never been in a relationship with a title on it that ended without a word. Ghosting is another thing, like I’m sure we’ve all had a point in our lives with someone where the spark starts fizzling out then you just stop trying/talking.

[Asker]

Interesting. This is the 2nd time this has happened.
I've never been one to keep chasing when they pull away, so maybe that's why this keeps happening lol
I'm not complaining though. It doesn't hurt that much

[Opinion Owner]

Still they could at least give you the courtesy of a proper breakup, just going ghost is super childish and cold. Glad you have more of an optimistic approach to this though🙏

[Asker]

That's true lol.
Thanks I appreciate it

[virtualwasp]

only when a guy hasn't made any effort with me

[Asker]

You know, with this last one, I feel like that's probably the case.
But I did make an effort with her, until I realized she wasn't doing it back. So I stopped, and that's when this all started.

I know how girls are, and I don't blame her, but at the same time I want to see some effort too. It can't just be me

[virtualwasp]

same here if i have a few signs i will reciprocate. this is my situation, please look at my post below and give an opinion if thats ok.

Guy is always chatting to a different a lady every time I see him but start asking questions when I even wave to a guy? ↗

[Asker]

Sure thing

[DizzyDesii]

The closest thats ever happened was with my first boyfriend. He’d be like babe, my family’s moving away and he’d move. Or babe, I’m being sent to military school and he’d have other dudes from there writing me. m saying I deserve better. But then he’d get territorial and tell them my address changed and that I belonged to him. I mean there were so many times he was supposed to be gone but never was. But yea we never officially broke up so even if we had both moved on to someone new, when he returned for visits we’d be a couple again 💀 I don’t wanna talk about how long this went on for 😂 Now before he moved, anytime we actually used the words, “I’m breaking up with you”, we’d get back together the same day 🙈 Just horribly toxic

[On_cloud_wine]

Yeah, that’s how mine usually end, lol

[Asker]

Yep, way she goes

[On_cloud_wine]

Who? The chick you’re talking about?

[Asker]

No I mean that's the way it goes lol
But yes, she's gone too

[On_cloud_wine]

YupPp

[LiamJHayden]

Never.