He won’t talk about how he hurt me?

[Anonymous]

Guy who already had a girlfriend when he started talking to me won’t talk about it. He won’t acknowledge or apologize for hurting me and lying. He cheated on his girlfriend with me. I’m angry at him because we were so happy and he hasn’t broken up with this person. She’s still working at his business. Me and him continue to be together but he will not discuss this with me and I want to leave him if he doesn’t get her out of the picture.

[lightbulb27]

what's your question. you jumped into an existing relationship. did you know that? you're the other woman in a sense, and he hasn't moved on from the other. he's probably more messed up than before.

I know of the opposite scenario with girl and two guys. it's a mess.

he won't talk because he either can't admit, doesn't want the argument, etc..

[Asker]

I had no clue about the other person

[Asker]

What u mean messed up?

[lightbulb27]

two options... has to pick one, doesn't want to, not expressing thoughts, won't' acknowledge.
who knows what he's thinking or if he cares...

[Alli39]

Girl he's not even mature enough to be loyal to his current girlfriend. Get out of there. Of course he's not going to admit that he messed up. If he were, he probably wouldn't have done it to begin with.

[Anonymous]

So basically you’re a homewrecker and he’s clearly just using you for free sex & doesn’t care about your feelings whatsoever

[Asker]

Free? He buys me what I want. I had no clue about his ugly old girlfriend. He never mentioned her.