How do you feel about people who are celebrated for getting a "revenge body" after a break up or divorce? (Page 2)

[Stressyalaire]

I feel No. About it. Living for their ex doesn't sound like something you wanna celebrate...

[Anonymous]

Whatever motivates you to get into shape as long as you keep in shape and not just for the revenge. I don't see what's wrong with having that as motivation initially.

[qwert1234]

I mean if that's what gave that person motivation to become healthier, it's fine.

Losing weight could also be their outlet.

[AydenHazor]

I don't see it as a revenge body. I see it as finally being able to take care of yourself after getting out of a situation that stifled you and held you down.

[jahaims]

The ones where their SO left because they were unhealthy then they lose weight after they break up just shows that they could be healthy for thereselves but not for their partner.

[DextroShade]

It's really insulting to their previous partner but I guess that is the point. If she was fat I would not be with her to begin with so it doesn't matter to me.

[RavVid]

I agree it makes a lot of sense in the ironic sense

[CallmeTheKnight]

They got lazy in the relationship and don’t plan on being genuine about their health if it’s only used to make someone regret losing them

[Meropatrick]

Its a bit dim. I want to lose weight to be Healthy not to make someone sorry for leaving me. Very toxic petty menatlity

[Manuel2]

If you let yourseft gobafter finding love and they leave you. It was not you they love but your fit body or money or?

[coachTanthony]

When you lose attraction the love goes right after

[Reorx]

I think anything that motivates them to get healthier is a good thing, I don't like the revenge aspect, better if they did it for themselves, less chance of having a relapse.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If they're really capable of being in shape, then they're just using relationships as an excuse just to stop. They seem like people pleasers who only do it for other people not for themselves.

[DJB72]

Dumb. They don't leave the body. They leave the toxic personality

[siseñor]

It doesn't matter why, they still changed their entire lifestyle for the better.

[Jamesgoldrich]

They are single so whatever they do is their business. “Revenge body” just means they aren't healed from the last situation. Just a body is just two adults having consensual sex which is still their business.

[exitseven]

Good for them. They want to make a better life for themselves. I would do the same thing.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, they can call it revenge. But the fact is they HAVE to lose weight now. Because otherwise they're going to stay single forever.

[Johnny4473]

I think I am much happier with the fact that a person got into a healthier shape, regardless of the reason


So, all the power to you.

[Staximus]

My question is why didn't they do it for themselves in the first place, instead of just when seeking revenge

[LiamJHayden]

I would think, "What's to stop the person from reverting to the lazy slob once he or she gets a new SO?"

[Guanfei]

If you manage to become better after a divorce, that means you could have become better before. You didn't put the effort.

[Anonymous]

People rather be right than win in life.

[Wise4myage]

Hey, more power to them or anyone else who improves their health.

[boobliker]

cool it what they needed to do for them selves

[strlb]

Been there. Feels amazing to change and "run into" the ex

[SoJust]

wow you are amazing , these is continue work mate :)

[Bklynbadboy12]

To me, it makes no sense whatsoever. If you're gonna do it, do it for yourself, don't do it for anybody else.

[April_love]

Yes ofc it makes you seem stronger emotionally and physically

[DreamLife7]

I dont agree with it. It shouldn't take a divorce to care about their health.

[grega239]

Why couldnt they do this while in the relationship?

[shades777]

doing what they should have in first place shouldn't need a divorce to get your shit together

[Snakeyes7]

I will always celebrate people improving themselves.

[Michael_8477]

Good way to take all those negative feelings and direct them to something that will make you healthier….

[seddy]

I mean doing it specifically for revenge is lame but the body isn't.

[justabuddy]

Anything that motivates you to be a better "you" is a good thing.

[FreyaRed]

Not all breakups are bad decisions.

[PizzaDaddyo]

From Lizzo to Michelle Obama.

[elizamichale1]

Whatever gives them sense of satisfaction

[tolstoysbike]

No need to quit to lose weight

[MissBoogus]

I don't know my boyfriend did that

[In_Trance]

Revenge is a ridiculous reason

[onezipp]

Yes on the road now

[jimmy2]

Sex should be love not revenge

[Christoff92]

It feels great.

[Subflics]

Slay

[LimitedBenefits101]

Nonsense

[imfreeze95]

The reasoning sucks

[LunarEclipse433]

No. Be yourself

[krin_m]

Sort of!