How do people end up being a single parent to 2 kids? I understand 1, but 2 is confusing?

[Bobbybopeep]

What happened? Like 1 kid I can understand. But you had 2 then decided to get a divorce? How does that even happen

[Anonymous]

I like to sleep with married guys, so I get to look into the future and see what I do not want for my life and what not to do. Everyone else seems to rush into it all starry-eyed (I can tell just by the way some people talk about their idealized expectations of their romantic partner here, and then the way the old guys talk about what really happened during their life), but it usually turns into a situation with 1 or 2 kids, divorce, fucking around for 5 years and ignoring the kids, getting into a second marriage where there are more kids and making a whole big mess of it.

[Anonymous]

Life just happens. My mother is a single parent to 3 kids

[Bobbybopeep]

Anyone cheated? Or what do you mean life just happens

[Opinion Owner]

People don't work out their relationships, people die, one night stands etc.

[Bobbybopeep]

What about your mom specifically though. Sounds crazy afrer 2+ kids. You should have their personality figured out and everything.

[Opinion Owner]

She was engaged and in university with our father. She said she was pregnant and he called off the wedding. There was more than that I guess. He left he alone with twins

[Opinion Owner]

My younger siblings' father spent all the money, left us in debt, and was homeless during the 08' crash.

[Opinion Owner]

My mother, uncles, and aunt grew up in an abusive household, and they saw their parents through a divorce

[BoobSlayer]

You honestly expect me to sit here and judge a single parent with two children? ㅤ

[RoseySaraah]

Cause it takes about 7 years for them to want to divorce!

One kid they have distracting them... 2 he is tired of it she is depressed...

The guy leaves her and she heals and soon wants to date!

[HelpfulWoman]

2 kids is a whole different beast of parenting.
Plus could be different dad's.
Plus people can be idiots when it comes to relationships.

[provokeesmokee]

I'm curious: how do you think human reproduction happens?