What's your take on an EX who still wears your ring?

[Paris13]

*He still Wears Mine But I Took Mine Off More than a Year Ago. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

This is LDR, so all you really know is that he is wearing the ring when you video call. This could just be a manipulation.

If he is really wearing it all the time, then he obviously isn't ready to move forward with anyone else. . . but I would be very careful before concluding that this is the explanation.

[Paris13]

No, @OlderAndWiser He never Took it Off. He Made Sure years ago when It Kept Falling OFF, He secured it on his Cuhbby little Finger, That MUCH I DO TRUST. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

His hangup and desire to hold on to you isn't a good reason for you to hold on to him.

[AviatorTom]

From your previous posts, he'd like to have you back, and letting you see him wearing your ring is proof of that. He's hopping it might make a difference.

[Paris13]

Perhaps but I Know He Never Took It Off... xx

[Paris13]

Like During Gift Giving Time? xx

[19magic]

The better question is why are you bothered by it, you've posted a few times and your really sweet and shouldn't keep wasting your breath on this guy and cut all contact afte the way you got treated

[Paris13]

I Did Dump Him, @19magic And Vented Very Bad for a Year. But Feel He Has Resentment for Me and Maybe I should Not Care He is Still Wearing My ring. Thanks for Caring. xxoo

[19magic]

You're really sweet and while I don't know you in person, sometimes I find it helps to have a little voice saying don't worry about it (not always of course).

But it's not long ago I let myself and my personality go, to please girls who I thought were my friends. Who one time ditched me in a foreign country, when they had my purse with my money inside, so I couldn't even buy anything. I didn't have internet on my phone and didn't know the local area so I ended up wandering the streets for about an hour and a half before I finally managed to find my way to the hotel, where they said oh we couldn't find you - despite staying in the same spot. It was that moment I realised these were no friends of mine. The worse thing of it all was this taxi driver who said he'd give me a ride free of charge, 😉😉 suggestive look, and despite me saying no several times followed me at like 2mph for about 10 mins, I honestly thought I was gunna be raped at that time.

But I just kept thinking if the shoe was on the other foot I would never have left you, I would 100% make sure you were safe, even if we had a massive fight I'd still follow you or keep you in my line of eye sight, especially if I was in my home country and you were the visitor I would never in a million years do what they did to me. And the matter of the fact is we didn't even fight we were having a drink and a laugh they said they needed a toilet I told them I'll stay at the table thing and keep our drinks safe, a half hour later I went and checked the toilets and then the bar and they were gone.

[19magic]

So what I'm trying to say is I know how it feels to have someone betray us. Not sure if it came off like that, but that was my intention

[Paris13]

I Realize what I Did a Year Ago and Not sure "Why It Happened" In this Way... Now I Pay for it... xxoo

[Paris13]

@19magic Thank You. I Believe You are Right... xxoo

[WhiteSandyBeach]

Paris,

That ring has a very naughty meaning. lol

It's the same as this..

Or this...

:) :)

[Paris13]

@whitesandybeach lol!!! I see. xx

[WhiteSandyBeach]

Do you catch my drift? :)

[Paris13]

@whitesandybeach EX is ASEXUAL. lol!!! xx

[WhiteSandyBeach]

That black ring means he's a swinger.
Pineapples on your porch means swingers live there.
Bananas in your shopping cart that are curved up, means you're looking to get.

[OfMiceandMen]

It's one of two things, he's either not ready to let go or he just wants to keep you on the hook in case he changes his mind.

It sounds like you both really need to sit down and either work things out or go your separate ways. It seems like both of you have been in this in between state for quite some time.

[Paris13]

So True... xx

[AnusNdaPainus]

Let me explain something to you

women realize that if another woman wants you especially if she is pretty looking it’s not for no reason and if you are short or unattractive that only leaves her a few benefactors : money or good D

https://www.youtube.com/embed/1gX4XYFBzNw

[Paris13]

Okay, Adam. lolxx

[Masterodd]

It's a pinky ring... and your distressed over that? OMG... it sounds like YOU need to move on and not worry about what he is wearing... hahahahah

My ex-ex-ex still wears her engagement ring because it's the only diamond she has ever been given.. ( 3.5ct ) she refused to give it back after I caught her sleeping around and called her on her behavior...

I've known chics that have kept their ex-BF's high school ring years after they broke up..

[Paris13]

He was NEVER I*NTO RINGS? LOL!!! xx

[Surely]

A friend of mine told me that he never was hit on as until after he started wearing his wedding ring 💍.
Wearing a wedding ring. He can tell the women that he meets. That his wife ran away and took the dog. That he still loves her, but he really misses his dog!
So then your sisters will try to console him. Right into the bedroom!

[Paris13]

Yikes!!! xx

[EmyyWolf]

I don’t believe in a marriage.

But if I was married to him or he’s considered my boyfriend. He better sell that shit or destroy it. Cause I won’t tolerate it. Im out! 🖕 I’m not staying with Mr. Ring 😂 wtf

[Paris13]

lol!!! My Yoda. xx

[EmyyWolf]

🫵🫵 you know it ‼️‼️

[overthinkergirl]

he didn't move on or he isn't ready to put his ring off because then he will be finally separated from you? maybe also he is wearing it if the ring has high value so he can show it off?

[Paris13]

lol It is Nothing Fancy on his Pinkie But Okay. I do Agree with Your Other Reply. xx

[Bloopbloopbloop]

It's his choice. He's still in love with me. I hope he takes it off when he finds someone else.

[Billlewis]

@Bloopbloopbloop Somehow, I can't imagine him not still being in love with you;)

[Paris13]

lol Right. xx

[menina]

He can't forget you. He's struggling to move on.

[menina]

Maybe he needs help.

[Paris13]

Um, Disassociation Issues... xx

[menina]

Yes, I think so.

[Toriixlovely]

Honestly, you never know what their intentions are for continuing to wear it. But, I wouldn’t care it’s none of my business no more. Ahahah.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx

[Anpu23]

He's either not over you yet, too lazy to have it removed or using it as a shield to keep other women away.

[Paris13]

Ahhhh Or Keep Our Memories too. xx

[Truthatanycost]

I have no concern or knowledge about what an ex is doing and neither should you...

[Paris13]

My MasterPiece. lolxx

[RealMarek]

I made a habit of not thinking about my ex any more than I have to. I couldn’t care less and wouldn’t know about what rings she wears.

[Paris13]

So Real. xx

[Agape93]

I don't see any issues. I still have a exs hamsa necklace

[Paris13]

Do you Wear It? xx

[Agape93]

Sometimes yeah. Right now its on a nail by my door

[Paris13]

Lovely. xx

[Ms_Facesitter]

I just hope that he wears it because he likes it and not because he isn't over me.

[Paris13]

Gulp. xx

[FellowTraveler]

They have moved on physically, but haven't moved on emotionally.

[Paris13]

I would Need to Agree. xx

[exitseven]

Maybe he wears it to keep women from hitting on him.

[Paris13]

Not Realllly Seeing That... lolxx

[TonyMetal___86]

It's stupid because the person is gone, why would i wear a ring for someone who left and doesn't want me anymore...

[Paris13]

Hope and Faith? xx

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't know, have hope and faith in someone who left me and never wants me back, it's like i'm hurting myself for nothing, also keeping myself in dreams and depression while she have moved on in her life and have started a new future without me...

Maybe hope and faith for sometime but in the end, he must accept the reality...

[jahaims]

I wouldn't know what my ex was wearing/doing. Keeping up with an ex isn't emotionally healthy. Now you are wasting energy on past relationships.

[Paris13]

I Have Him Attached Yet To... lolxx

[Mansearching]

I never given a ring. Maybe ear rings. But that's fine.

[Paris13]

lol Okay. xx

[RedInnocent68]

They’re still grieving/haven’t gotten over it, and aren’t ready to move on.

[Paris13]

Heasked Me if I am Wearing Mine. lol!!! xx

[Paris13]

You could Be Right... xx