Will he come back?

[Anonymous]

He ended things with me cause his homeboy found my old tinder account and it said active. Which mind you I haven't been on tinder since I've been talking to him. he's been cheated on in the past and he doesn't trust easily. He said I broke his trust and he made it very clear he's done and he's going to delete me off snapchat. He didn't delete me. He said he needs time to think but he said dont text him dont call him & dont show up at his place. But I feel like maybe he will come back because when we were together he said the sex was so amazing and the head was great and he also liked my vibe. Then again he said he couldn't be with me since I broke that trust. Its driving me crazy i just want to talk to him because i didn't do anything to him he's the only one I've been talking to and seeing but he doesn't believe me. 😔😔 what do I even do? I can't stop thinking about him

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww, that sucks he's doubting you over something dumb like that tinder glitch or whatever. But because of how his ex messed him up before, I get why he's all paranoid now too.

Here's what I would do - give him the space he asked for, even though it's killing you not to text him. The more you try to push or explain, the more he may think you're lying.

In the meantime, keep yourself busy hanging with your girls, working out, doing your hobbies, whatever helps take your mind off him. Show on social media you're living your best life without him too.

Then, in like a couple weeks if he still hasn't reached back out, I'd consider sending him ONE more text saying something like "I miss you and hope you believe me one day. Lmk if you change your mind."

After that, all you can do it leave the ball in his court and move on. He'll either come around and see you were loyal, or he won't and wasn't worth the stress. But chasing him will only push him away more. You got this!

[Gent207-2]

He's a fuckboy and his homie just gave him an out. Why the hell would you want him back?

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[Asker]

I dont know I guess I'm stupid 🤦🏻‍♀️ you really think he sound like a fuckboy?

[Gent207-2]

Absolutely yes - he will do you and leave you, again and again

[Asker]

He introduced me to his mom and he said he seen a future with me. But he said he feels like I used him and now he feel worthless and he said he didn't want to cut me off cause he really liked me but he said he can't be with someone he can't trust and he said he's not trying to get hurt again. Could that all be lies?