Is it toxic if someone gets into a new relationship not long after breaking up?

[mono_gram]

Yes

No

A total of 27 votes were cast: 15 girls and 12 guys. See detailed results

[Billlewis]

Anytime I'm in a relationship with a woman, despite my obvious desire to keep the arrangement going for as long as possible, this is contingent upon her being quite happy and sated. If it becomes apparent that the relationship cannot produce that desired result in sufficient quantity or with acceptable consistency, then my top priority is to help her prepare for the next chapter of her social and sexual life.

If we're fortunate enough for her to meet a guy who could potentially be her boyfriend on a long term basis, I consider that an upper deck home run.

[Billlewis]

So, to hopefully answer your question, I regard a new lover in my mistress' life as a watershed moment, and I take a considerable degree of responsibility, as well as my solemn commitment to her enjoyment. If it sounds like I'm in a one way kind of scenario, that would be an accurate assessment.

[molonski2]

In reality , its just real life , thats what constantly happens.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the intention/reasoning. If they haven’t actually moved on and is only dating to get over their ex then it’s toxic for the new person that they’re dating. The new person doesn’t deserve to be a rebound. Other than that it’s whatever.

[Paris13]

One Of Two Things... Rebound or Having Set Sights ON THEM Before The Breakup... xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[HollyK21]

It’s toxic if you care, an eye-roll and dismissal if you don’t.

[PeaceNFluffy68]

It depends. If it is because that person doesn't want to be alone then it is toxic. If the person mentally and emotionally checked out while in the relationship several months before finally deciding to leave then it is fine.

[Yoursweetgirl]

It's kinda toxic. I think everyone needs time to get over

[wiltingrosepetal]

It's a toxic coping method. Rebounds aren't great

[Bella2423]

If you choose right, he or she will help

[YourSong]

It’s really nobody’s business

[Billlewis]

Unfortunately, we're in an era in which everyone's behavior is everyone else's business -- not because that philosophy represents the regressive left but because if your goal is to tear down America, the most advantageous place to start is by agitating the various groups, ethnicities and demographic categories. Once you've got the citizenry voting not to advance their own interests, but to use their votes to try and hurt another group, you should be able to wreck the rest of the nation, at least in theory.

[YourSong]

@Billlewis how did this even turn political?

[Billlewis]

Everything is political today, and if it isn't political, then it's racial. But to answer your question, the new 'Moral High Ground' environment in which we are being shoehorned into is everywhere these days.

[DreamLife7]

Stop stalking him he doesn't like u

[strateguy632]

it isn't

[James_Likes_PPL]

Not at all.