Faking it with my wife can we stay married or will the lie end things?

[Anonymous]

Yes lesbian let's get that answered!

Yes also I really love her we get along well and everything is perfect and we are planning kids soon! ❤️

But I have always faked it in bed she wants me finishing when she does always or gets emotionally hurt and cries. But well I take longer like 30 minutes or longer. She gets bored and tired so I kinda just make her happy.

Some day this lie will come out and I don't want it to end but also it will crush her!

No not cheating to make myself happy!

Talk with her it might not end!

Tell her before you get pregnant

Keep the secret it keeps life spicy

If she love you then she won't end it

End it now divorce her

This happened to me and it went...

[SecretsofKB]

Also lesbian here! Yeah, I would sit her down and have a conversation with her. Tell her how long it takes you and make very sure she knows it isn't her fault.

The both of you need to be able to communicate effectively to make this relationship last. Especially if kids are about to be involved.

[Asker]

Tha ks but she is just always so crushed when we don't orgasm together! I can't imagine how sad she will be and crushed.

Hate that I bragged that my exes made me finish fast like her! They did then!

Congrats married?

[SecretsofKB]

Unless you're okay with faking it forever, I would still try to bring it up.

An not yet! Engaged though!

[Asker]

O how much longer till the wedding! over weddings

[SecretsofKB]

Tentatively the fall of this year. We're not sure.

[ButtFloggedTroll]

Damn the generic useless underneath-commonsense opinion by the other lesbian here disturbs me. Even @being_a_good_lesbian would've said something smarter. Can we not post useless shit? "Unless you're okay faking it, you should bring it up! Did you know that? I thought you don't." I'll add something not too smart but at least a thought to consider if you haven't already tried it. Find a way to prolong her latency or shorten yours, drugs work... or fap beforehand so you finish together. Is it shocking?

[Asker]

Like how you assume that we are like useless men!
If we fap before we don't go longer! We just have another orgasm!
Shows how hateful and brain dead you are!

Bet you think we can squirt like 3 feet when orgasming too from porn!

Ever notice much less squirting in lesbian porn for women... Yeah it's cause we know it is fake just peeing!

[ButtFloggedTroll]

I said you fap beforehand so you're already half way to your finish line.

[sean1234]

God created marriage, there is no lesbian/gay married couple. It's invalid, no more valid than a child thinking he's a firefighter.

[Asker]

True maybe we are never meant to be together but then we have sex and it's to powerful not to be

[sean1234]

But not so powerful that you dont actually need a man to have kids.

[sean1234]

So get with that man as God intended. Marriage isn't just between a man and a woman in the bible, it's also symbolically between man and woman.

[Asker]

Going to hell and loving it!

[sean1234]

You have no earthly idea what you are saying.👩‍🦯👩‍🦯

[sean1234]

It's the demon talking not you, don't forget that miss. Repent in Jesus name.

[Squatting_Slav]

Damn OP, she gets bored? There's no love there in my opinion

[Asker]

No there is just not high sex drive for us!
Really you try licking your girlfriend for an hour see how bored you get!

There is lots of love you just never had love and lust sperate!

[Squatting_Slav]

Done that a few times, if they're put in the effort for me I'm doing it back haha. Okay, i worded that badly, love is there,

but it does it seem like she maybe feels like it's one sided during sex? Maybe the fact that you take longer makes her feel bad?

[Asker]

Yes she feels we should take the same time and is crushed when we don't finish together.

Not not so much one sided sex as she does out in effort! She just has sex for orgasm I have it for passion.

[Squatting_Slav]

Ahhh I gotcha, well it seeems I got the wrong end of the foot I just needed a bit more context. You're both good, I genuinely don't see nay issues here a herat to heart convo would sort it out I'm sure

[strateguy632]

2nd,,