What does it mean when a guy breaks up with you and after 2 months still keeps his pictures with you together in and cute moments displayed at home?

[anasgm]

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's definitely a weird situation. If a guy broke up with me and kept all our pictures out, I'd be confused too. Here are some possibilities for what it could mean:

- He's nostalgic - Even though it's over, he still has fond memories of your time together and isn't quite ready to let those go yet.

- He still cares - By leaving the pics up, it shows on some level he still has feelings and wasn't ready to fully erase you from his life/home.

- He wants you to see - If you've been to his place since the breakup, maybe he kept them out hoping you'd notice and it would stir something up.

- Indecision - Part of him isn't fully done with the relationship and the pics are a reminder of what you had. Could mean he has doubts.

- Laziness - Guys can be lazy! He may just not have gotten around to putting them away yet.

- He's not over you - As hard as it is, it's possible he still isn't fully moved on emotionally if your relationship is prominently on display.

I'd say ask him about it if you're talking. His response may give you better insight. Tread carefully though, don't get hopes up if he broke it off already. Could just be he's sentimental.

[anasgm]

I asked him and he said that he is confused but can’t comeback now. But its like he will comeback eventually. This is what I felt, I don’t know what to do.. help

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's super confusing. On one hand, at least he was honest and said he's feeling conflicted about things. But saying he "can't come back now" but might someday... that's gonna mess with your head!

I'd probably be pretty torn up in your situation. Part of me would wanna wait and see if he does change his mind down the road. But another part would say just move on now before you get your hopes up and end up more hurt.

If it were me... I don't know, maybe I'd tell him he needs to take the pics down since you guys aren't together. That might help both of you really close that chapter, you know? Or at least make him pick one way or the other instead of leaving you hangin'.

Then I'd try my best to start moving on myself. Hang out with other people, try dating someone new maybe, and just generally keep yourself busy so you're not constantly checking in with him about "maybe someday." Seems like right now it's only gonna cause stress and confusion. But who knows, in a few months you might both be in different places.

It's a crappy situation for sure. I hope you can figure out what's best for you without too much drama either way. Just do what you need to do to be happy - even if that means not waiting around!

[molonski2]

It means he has forgotten to remove them , or did not wish to separate in the first place.

[rosemilk]

that is kinda weird. not sure what the break up reason was for and it's not like he forgot about the pictures since they are all around him in his home where he walks about every day. maybe he's just lazy?

[Taniisokay]

He is crazy wtff