Girls, Why random question from my ex during NC?

[Anonymous]

My wife divorced me 4 months ago, it was an easy breakup and during the divorce process I told her please do not contact me unless is for reconciliation, because I want to give us a chance, she was quite angry about it because she wanted stay friends but I told her once again please only talk to me if you want work things out. 2 months of NC has passed and yesterday she sent me a random message with a silly question about Gmail, and that she was at Disneyland with her daughter. I was quite nervous and confused, and I told her lets meet for a drinks she said no, I just answered "well you know where I stand for" and she didn't reply. It might be just a simple question but I wonder why she did that even I told her please contact me only to reconcile.

[SueShe]

The only reason I see for her behavior is to check you out and if you are serious about your no contact rules. It is a bit of a childish reaction of hers but it could also be a clumsy attempt to see how you react to seemingly unimportant mails.

I would not even have answered because you indirectly indicate that even you are not abiding by your rules. No contact means no contact and that should apply to both sides.

I would simply have ignored her mail and not given her the satisfaction to have you answer to her on an unimportant topic.