Why didn’t I felt a connection with my ex boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

We did LDR, we met online, we FaceTimed and had a lot of erm… phone… yeah but nothing special. We were in our late teens, basically adults but I felt nothing with him. So I broke it off and felt bad, am I broken?

[Mr_twoface]

No, not at all. Everyone wants to be loved and feel emotionally connected to someone. With him you tried to make it work, to see where your feeling led you but in the end you felt nothing and it's totally fine. Someday, you will come across someone who will swipe away your feet and you will be all over that person.

Best of luck!

[Asker]

I didn’t feel anything; I felt so bad for him which is why I ended things

[Mr_twoface]

It's very natural! I've had the same experience with two girls. One told me she loved me and I genuinely thought if I put in the effort and look beyond emotions, I might fall for her. Just like you, I felt nothing and walked away.

[DishLady]

That's between you and the guy... LDR are hard to maintain under any circumstances. Additionally, you're young, so you've got lots of time to feel and do whatever you like. "Am I Broken"? Because one guy didn't get your engines running? No... you just need the right guy.

[Anonymous]

Was he your first boyfriend?

[Asker]

Yes he was

[Opinion Owner]

Then you’re not broken, you’re still in the box brand new.
Maybe he just loved you more,
This is one of the most reasons women break up with men.
But the women mark these kind of break ups as broken or blame it on the previous relationship if they had one.
In the end, you’re a healthy woman and nothing is wrong with you.

You will forget about it after one or two periods.

[Arun1616]

Maybe because you were not ment to be partners