I broke up with my boyfriend (of 9 months) yesterday. We were Long Distance (so communication is key)
(We also would see eachother every 2-3 months. Before breaking up with him I had bought tickets to fly out and see him...)
For the past month we have been talking less and less. We went from talking on the phone every night- to once a week. Texting all the time- to a few texts throughout the day. We used to Skype once and a while until he started making excuses to not Skype at all. We used to tell eachother we loved eachother all the time, and now I only found myself saying it often.. If he said it, it was just a "love ya" sometimes he ignored my "I love you"...
It was breaking me apart, and i was sick of feeling like this was turning into a game. I felt as he just didn't care about me anymore. So I took the liberty of telling him that I felt uncared for and unloved. That no matter how busy someone is they don't deserve to feel the way I have been feeling for the past month. I told him I loved him so much and that this was hard for me to do but that I was breaking up with him.
His response was "Okay, Bye. Take Care" and that was that... I think thats what hurt the most. He just didn't care? I just don't even know whats been going on in his head.
This is reallly killing me!! All I want to do is be with him, I love him. But I think the best thing right now is for us to be apart. I figure that maybe if I give him time and space away from being with me, maybe he can clear his head and come to terms with how he was treating me...
Do you guys think he will ever come around and talk to me again? I know i broke up with him but I felt we needed to take a step back. Or did I just ruin everything?
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Calm down... There is no point in being in a one sided relationship. If he can't make you feel loved and cared for then what's the point. Long distance has enough challenges and if he can't put in the effort then maybe he isn't the one. He might come round an want to get back together but don't hold your breath. You can't make him care about you.0