I'm shocked, confused, hurt so deeply, that I can't seem to process the pain. Can someone try to help me?

[Anonymous]

Dated a man. We both made it very clear to each other how in love we are with each other. Even the day before we were wonderful, all is well, as it had always been. The very next day, out of nowhere, for no reason that I have a clue about, he doesn't say a word to me about why, he just ends our relationship, never talks to me again. After all the love it seemed we had, how in love we seemed to be.. after all the future plans we'd made together, how amazing we were together... this has just really shocked me to my core, confused me, an hurt me so deeply.. that I don't have enough words to express this pain. It's so deep that I am finding it impossible to process it, to let him go... I just can't understand it, and I'm just in such shock, and in just so much pain... it is just so sudden, an without reason given, and he's just gone... my mind, my heart cannot seem to process it... thank you for any kind answers.

[SueShe]

How people can lead us on for a long time is limitless and the longer it lasts the less we perceive or want to acknowledge the signals that should have been a warning. We close the eyes on those details because they only happen to others. Unfortunately, nobody is immune to a heartbreak.

To get closure on this emotional treachery, you must just concentrate on what lies ahead and not the shards left behind. Get rid of anything that reminds you of this person and that would include social media, pictures and other memorabilia and trinkets.

Take up a hobby or join a club where people share the same interests as you do. You can make good contacts there that make it easier to forget. Also, avoid places you went together with your man. Good luck.

[DishLady]

You can be in shock but also still let the person go. It's in fact best to do that. He's left you for whatever reasons of his and isn't looking back... Time to pick up and move on.

[strateguy632]

that is not natural, speak with a close friend about the story get it off your burden

[Anonymous]

You just have to let this go. He obviously was never serious about you.

[Asker]

logically I know I have to, I'm saying I can't seem to do it... he was sincere... i know he was... so it's just so confusing, shocking, painful... I mean imagine? anyhow thank you.

[Awantika03]

Don't get bear pain for such stupid person

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should consider therapy.