How do I heal from this hurt?

[blackittencat]

He doesn’t text me.. he responds… he doesn’t care if I go on dates with other guys… he never gave me his address.. everything he told me in the beginning he hasn’t done other than fucking me. All I could do is cry and ask god to heal me I’m such a good person. Like why isn’t he being honest with me…I knew him for 4years

[nawtee_me]

You heal through forgiveness... Many say, How can I forgive> why should I give them that? But to forgive does not mean to forget. Forgiveness is about you, not them. It allows you to heal so that every time you think or hear of them you can let it go. Without forgiveness, bitterness will rule you and you won't be able to let it go.

[ShiftingMonke]

If he only brings you misery, why grant his life with your presence? It costs nothing to block and delete him from your phone and your life, but you'll be rewarded with a chance for happiness if you do so.

[SnowedIn]

You heal by removing whatever is left of him from your life. Then turn 180 and move forward. One painful step/hour/day at a time. Do things you like to do to focus your mind away from him. It will get better.

[Guardian45]

Time heals all wounds. BUT it sounds like you need to develop your spidey-sense, cuz clearly you never knew him as well as you thought. You needed to "call Saul" or some other Fixer when you were in the thick of things!

[SpokenTruth]

I'm not going to ask how you knew him for four years before that happened.

[Anonymous]

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