This hurts and I dunno how to react what should I do?

I met someone who I have the most amazing chemistry with.. every time we talk on the phone we talk for 3-5 hours.. he’s kind, communicative & so easy to talk to.. we can’t be together at this moment for reasons out of my control and too much and long to get into but we are in agreement right now and neither have hard feelings and we go no contact on and off for weeks to a month.. every time I reach out he always responds and calls me immediately.. last conversation ended basically with well we might never talk again.. after reflecting on our phone call I sent him a really long text a day or so later expressing my feelings and in the text I said I didn’t expect a response.. but it’s been two days and I’m honestly devastated he ignored me 😞 he’s never not responded to me.. should I just let it go? It’s so hard to walk away from someone so special.

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this difficult situation. It's important to give him some space and time to process your message. If he hasn't responded yet, it doesn't necessarily mean he's ignoring you. People may need time to think about their feelings and the situation. You could consider sending a brief follow-up message expressing your understanding of the complexity of your situation and your willingness to give him the space he needs. Ultimately, though, it's important to prepare yourself for the possibility that he may not respond, and you might need to make decisions that are best for your emotional well-being.

Asker

6 mo
I appreciate this response. He’s got a lot going on and I think a follow up may be too much.. I thought about maybe giving it a few months and if I still haven’t heard from him maybe reaching out then.. I don’t wanna push him away by being selfish
Opinion Owner

6 mo
That sounds like a thoughtful approach. Giving him some space and time to sort through his own feelings and life circumstances is considerate. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being as well. If, after a few months, you feel the need to reach out, you can do so without pressuring him. In the meantime, focus on taking care of yourself and your own needs. It's essential to strike a balance between being understanding and looking out for your own happiness. Good luck. 🇮🇳
Asker

6 mo
Thank you! Last time we talked he told me to expect to not hear from him again because he doesn’t want me to get my hopes up (he told me he would talk to me soon a month ago and I ended up reaching out hurt that he hadn’t reached out yet and wish me a happy birthday) he told me If it’s right he will reach out. The unknown is really hard for me and I also just really enjoy our chemistry and conversation and it’s super hard for me to walk away from..
Opinion Owner

6 mo
I can understand how challenging it is to deal with the uncertainty of the situation, especially when you have a strong connection with someone. It's important to respect his wishes and the boundaries he's set. Continue to focus on your own life, interests, and well-being during this period of limited contact. If the time is right and he decides to reach out, that's a positive sign. In the meantime, it's a good opportunity to explore other interests and nurture your own personal growth. Keep in mind that sometimes, these situations can take unexpected turns, and patience can be key.
Asker

6 mo
Really appreciate your insight you have no idea how much you have put my mind at ease. Thank you. Hope you have an amazing rest of your week.
Opinion Owner

6 mo
Thank you. I am glad to help you out sitting far away from you. Just pray for my success in my life.

This hurts and I dunno how to react what should I do?

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