1 yI think it's best to just say how it is, people don't usually like when others beat around the bush.. "I'm so sorry... This isn't working out" "I'm not attracted to you anymore" "I'll always love you, just not inlove with you" however you're feeling that's what you need to tell him. Or if you're really nervous about talking to him about it for whatever reason.. you can always write it down in a letter and give it to him.. I found over the years that it's always easier to say whatever by writing like via letter, SMS etc.. over saying how I feel. Even if he's in the same house as you and in the same room as you you can still write it in a SMS and send it to him if it makes it easier and tell him exactly how you feel.
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Do you support such acts huge forehead jessica? 🤔
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Oh grow up Tony, I'm trying to be helpful, she can't be expected to stay with the guy if she doesn't have feelings for him anymore and I don't see you helping out instead I see you being a pig to woman. Does that make you feel tough? You're actually gross 🤢
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I knew that you thought that i'm making fun of you but i do actually like women with big foreheads and everyone knows it, don't think that i was making fun of you cause i would of said it but nope i find you an innocent looking woman with a smart huge forehead...
Anyways, when it comes to this chick, call me what you want but a pig is small, should of been a bull with her because i hate people who have no feelings and no emotions, who are manipulative and will just use you for their own benefits and when their done, they'll dump you like a bag of trash! - 1 y
You do realise tho that people loose feelings all the time. You can't expect someone to stay if they don't love you or lost feelings, otherwise Noone would break up. She's not dumping him like a bag of trash otherwise she would have just done it she's come here looking for advice on what to do because she doesn't have feelings for him anymore and it is a discussion they need to have.. I was with my ex partner for 8 years I didn't even dump him, I ghosted him in the end because apart from being cheated on and staying I'd get controlled and abused about everything I lost feelings long before I actually left does that make me bad because I just left the relationship without talking to him, is everyone meant to stay in a relationship if theyre not happy?
- 1 y
Miss huge forehead jessica, in your case, i'd say you have done the best, you did what a loyal real lady should of done, actually in your case, you could of left from the 1st moment, even the bible allows you to divorce if you were being cheated on in a marriage!
You did the right thing, he didn't deserve you at all, you deserve someone to treat you the way you have treated him, PLUS when a couple are in love with each other, death would be easier than cheating!
What kind of an idiot would cheat? I mean you have your wife, go to her!
You lost your feelings because all of these that happened with you, EXTREME reasons not just like that because you woke up and felt i'm bored i wanna leave, you got my point? - 1 y
Yeh but there might be more to the story.. she doesn't have to write her entire life talking about what lead up to it. We don't know if something extreme happened? Yes thank you. I have a person now nearly 4 years.
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@Jessikaah91 Don’t mind him. He’s just a bully that’s trying to get attention.
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@Peridot25 funny enough some other guy was saying mean things to me also about my forehead and that was just before Tonys comment to me so at first I thought maybe they were the same person.. but it was literally because I stuck up for some girl he called fat which is why the other guy started being rude towards me. I've noticed there's quite a few of people like that on this site.
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@Jessikaah91 That’s what bullies do. Insult you because they got caught. I was called a pedophile for standing up for a teenager on here where men would make gross comments towards here. This world is majorly broken.
- 1 y
@Peridot25 definitely broken. Sometimes we need to stand up for people especially if they are girls getting so many gross comments from men.. like the amount of time I've seen post about people being fat is gross too, some girl the other day fat shamed me because she started going on about how she's always been thin and during sex men can never feel a bigger girl because they're loose and thin girls are tight it was the weirdest thing.
- 1 y
@Peridot25 why don't you tell this woman what a big liar you are eyyy
You couldn't just kept the agreement and your promise right? See i have never answered your questions and never commented on your replies towards other members wether i liked them or not, you know why? It's because i respect myself and my promises, unlike you, how many time do i have to handle sh*t from you or forgive for what you done, last time you told me sorry it was my fault and that you will never do it again cause you forgot and i said ok, what about now? You just couldn't kept yourself away from me right? 😏
Do i really need to block you so you understand!
You do know that the world is a broke place because men like are just extremely rare or maybe there's none, i'm a builder and a man eho spreads happiness, safety and care!
I'm not a bully at all and you know it! I find her huge forehead cute and it's bone of your business what i say to other women!
I guess more than 100 women of my followers who influencers aren't my followers just for nothing, maybe they do have brain unlike you, a jealous filthy girl who is just brave when it comes to attacking me! - 1 y
@TonyMetal___86 Go ahead and block me, motherfucker. You’re nothing but a garbage human being anyway.
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@Jessikaah91 miss jessica, i'm not a bully and about this guy that you have mentioned, it's not me, i don't make fake accounts and don't have time for such things, is it wrong if like women with huge foreheads like yours! 🤔
No matter what you or anyone say, my mind is comfortable because i know who i am, and if someday you found yourself on the verge of death, you will find out that only a man like me will save you, i'm not someone bad!
I don't attack women out of nothing, i actually attack anyone who is wrong, if a woman needs my help, i'm there for her and same for men, that's who i am! Believe it or not! - 1 y
@Peridot25 i really feel sorry for you, do you really feel strong when you bark at me like a dog and cuss me? 🤣🤣
You're just a fool and you know it, if you were in my face barking like that, it costs me just onle slap on your jaw to make you sleep for hours, grow up chick! You ain't a kid anymore, i really feel sorry for you but i just can't understand why you're so against me, you always explode in my face every couple of months, you really need some therapy, by the way you haven't told me who broke the agreement? 😂😂
I ain't going to block you because you're not worth it, it's like you're running to jump of the cliff to die, i don't wanna help you in such act, i'll always be the better person than you will ever be!
In case tou want to make sure if my followers likes me or not, feel free to ask them 😌
Still i have to report your ugly words 😀 - 1 y
@TonyMetal___86 Oh, so you like to slap women around, do you? Good to know.
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Huge forhehead jessica doesn't need your help anyway and i'll give you the chance to block me, go ahead and do it again 😅😅
- 1 y
@Peridot25 what do you want crazy blonde chick? Do you think that i'll slap you to feel strong? Haha
I'll just slap you to bring back that brain of yours that you lose sometimes and speak some sense, that's all...
What do you want me to do, stand in front of you the whole day listening to all the crap fake sh*t that you're imagining about me? 😂😂
I did it before and will do it again, yes i'll beat sny man or woman who offends me this way, it's not like i wanna break your bones or make you bleed, just a slap so you wake up! 😏
Especially you! Because we all know that when you lose it, you become psychotic haha, even in your workplace, YOU wonder how they are still keeping you at work haha
I don't want your address, i feel sorry for you, i don't wanna hurt you because my presence is to make you someone better and not worst but you're just a maniac! You think that everyone hates you and that everyone wants to hurt you! - 1 y
@Peridot25 the only things that makes me feel empowered is when i help someone and make them happy and give care to people whom no one cares about...
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Also, you didn’t like the fact I was sticking up for @Jessikaah91. You went out of your way to call her names which she did not appreciate.
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So don’t act all fucking righteous when you go out of your way to insult people when they LITERALLY did nothing to you. OP was just asking a question and @Jessikaah91 was giving advice.
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@Peridot25 how come of someone treats you bad, you feel sorry for him and affraid on his feelings and wanna find a way to be respectful, it means that the guy ain't sh*tty, if he was, than she wouldn't have cared how to leave him without hurting his feelings, right? She knows that she's a b*tch and that he's a good guy but just don't wanna continue with him, maybe she's bored and wanna switch, she feels somehow guilty!
About jessica, i like to joke with nice people, her face looked nice to me, i like people who looks like cartoon characters, it's not an offense because i really do like them, i find them innocent!
If she's bothered that i call her like that, she csn surely tell me respectfully and i won't call her like this anymore, like i said, i care about such people, the last thing i wanna do is to hurt them!
What's weird about you is that she's saying nothing, you're the one who shaking and trembling like a maniac 😂😂
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@DishLady see miss dish, that's the kind of garbage i'm talking about 😄
Imagine a man where you leave everything for him, love him from all your heart and wake up every morning dreaming of a future with him, also giving all yourself to him, get used to him and suddenly he comes to you and tells you that he wants to break with you, because one morning you woke up and you started sneezing or he woke and didn't find you beautiful anymore or another lame stupid excuse just so he justify his break up from you!
He starts telling you, "i love you so much dear but i can't be with you" what are you going to tell him "f*ck off and go play these mind games on someone else" how can someone be sad or be in love and yet chose to dump you while their decision is taken by them!
Just stop this bullsh*t and leave for god sake!
In the past when a woman used to love a man, only death would of taken her away, these are the real ladies and you're one of them i guess miss dish 😌 - 1 y
@TonyMetal___86 Tony... If a marriage or relationship is based on lies, for example, it isn't going to then last the test of time. I personally have been through the relationship based on lies and guys sinking deeper and deeper into their lies and personal drama while I'm expected to be the upfront paragon of truth... but a girl gets tired of the bs, ok? It's not normal for a guy to expect 150% from a girl and then he offers only 20%. So ultimately in a situation like that, a girl needs to be kind to herself and do the right thing by leaving.
I know YOU have been on the wrong end of this situation, but step away from your own situation for a moment and consider what I'm saying here...
What I'm saying is that one person shouldn't have to carry the burden of a relationship. It's supposed to lay across the shoulders of both people evenly. In the case of this Pink Anon asker, you don't know WHY she's stopped being able to feel attraction. Real attraction doesn't just vanish POOF into thin air. There's always a reason. And if it was a BLUE Anon asker saying the same thing, wouldn't everyone on G@G just shrug and say "Yeah, poor guy... let the girl down easy"? They would. I'm telling her to do the same thing. Make the list and let the guy down easy. - 1 y
I agree with you miss dish cause you're speaking logic and you're well aware that i don't have this case where i see a girl with one eye and a man with two eyes, who's wrong is wrong, gender has nothing to do with it and if i saw a blue anon talking the same sh*t, you know that he would be in my range of fire!
In marriage it's never okay for a man to be wrong and a woman to be always right, the burden of marriage is the responsibility of both and in my case i was always ready to carry the big part and the hard part but the other half instead of dying to help me to make it work, she ruined everything that i built because she doesn't want me to succeed or what excuse she will have to leave, understand?
About the question of this pink anon, i was trying to say if you're sad and don't want to break him and cares about your relationship than why would you wanna leave? It's impossible for you to leave if you truly still feel like that towards him or at least you can try to fix things and not just run away... that's all! - 1 y
A reltaionship should be built on honesty ofc so it lasts that's why i always encourage people to say the truth no matter how hard it is! Just say it!
I'm an honest man and that's why i get attacked some of the times, i don't know how to sugar coat my words!
I don't like to hurt anyone at all but some people deserves it because they don't care even if they brought you all the pain and suffering in the world!
1 yGirls like you shouldn't be loved in the 1st place, you don't even deserve to be a girlfriend, maybe a chick for a one night stand and that's if you're good enough 😏
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@Peridot25 good because i think the same too about men who does such sh*t, when are you going to understand that my fight is against the person who is wrong wether he is a man or she is a girl...
By the way, you just couldn't hold yourself eyyy, seeing me in your dreams? Wanna just reply and talk about me at sll cost 🤣🤣 - 1 y
@Peridot25 well that's your opinion, idc, you can think about me the way you want!
If i'm truly repulsive, than the best thing you can do is to stay away from me 😌 - 1 y
@Peridot25 i won't hit you if you just keep your mouth shut 🤣🤣 you're just too much, why are you always angry like that, not too good for your health!
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@Peridot25 i feel sorry for you, i won't beat you, you know why? Just for a simple reason because you're a maniac and not thinking right, if you had a fully developped brain and were conscious about your words than yes, be sure i would of slaped you on your face but i don't wanna hurt you, you're just sick and needs help!
Keep cussing me if that makes you happy and feel strong! - 1 y
@Peridot25 thanks 😄👍🏻
1 yPerhaps you could attempt a scenario such as this:
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