What do you think about girls who take back their exes who did them dirty?

[kareenakapur]

my ex broke up with me 3 months ago and he regretted it. He came back and sincerely apologized. Now my ex is my boyfriend lol. He sees a therapist and his therapist was like"she must have really liked you." What do you think about girls like me who take their exes back?

[Damaged00]

I was one of these girls. My ex husband cheated on me multiple times and I stayed with him. He went to therapy and we even went to marriage counseling. I was understanding and did anything to save my marriage. But he ended up just cheating again. I should have never stayed with him. When someone cheats and you go back to them, you are literally telling them that cheating is ok. Trust me he is never going to change. He did it once and will do it again. I'm very sorry. And who cares what anyone thinks of you, this is your life but you deserve better.

[kylee2437]

Lack of integrity and honestly I would never want to be friends with such girls. I dropped one of my best friends because her lack of integrity got in the middle of our friendship and made me look unimportant to her.

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... it seems like another heartbreak waiting to happen, but my romantic life isn't exactly filled with great decisions either.

I would say that I'm concerned that a woman like that is probably too headstrong and doesn't learn from her mistakes.

[kwsmith2]

It happens fairly often so chances are I wouldn't think anything in particular.

[Avicenna]

It's generally a bad idea

[Alli112]

Depends on what happened tbh. If it didn't end to badly or it's been a long time then minimal judgement. If it was a bad break-up or really recent I'm a little more hesitant, but because of how often people repeatedly return to relationships that are bad for them.

[NathanDavis]

that really depends on the context... there's a few levels of "dirty"

[WhitneySnow]

Generally a bad idea but if you guys really love each other it can work

[Kelly6]

@kareenakapur its good that you took her back, you have soft heart

[Ms_Facesitter]

I fail to understand why.

[dudeinohio]

I think it's rather stupid.

[Pterodon]

Desperate