He and I dated briefly and he was the one who broke things off recently. Reason was nothing major and totally workable. He really wanted to stay friends and was sad that I didn’t want it. I’ve been in no contact since. His birthday is coming up and I am planning to wish him. Just sending a wish and won’t ask any questions so it doesn’t seem like I’m trying to start a conversation. I won’t act desperate for sure.
I know that he would be thinking of me but his ego would be stopping him from reaching out to me.
Will my birthday wish give him an ego boost? Right now, I have the power as I went no contact but when I message him, he will get the upper hand in this dynamics and will probably realize that he still holds meaning in my life and won’t make effort towards me even if he wanted to.
I would like to know your opinion on this.
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