My girlfriend left me after getting pregnant during a threesome with me and another man. is it fair?

[bigboy133]

if you go back to my previous posts you will see that i had a threesome with my now ex-girlfriend and another man. she got pregnant during the threesome and it turns out that the baby is his she now she left me and is with him. do you think this is fair?

[lightbulb27]

What mean fair? It's a risk. Birth control can fail... It's not birth guarantee...

This why I tell people not to do things like this and said it more than once... there are no problems, til the test comes back positive. That's when the fun and games ends.

It's not the end of the world for you, you can start over. It might be the end of the world for the offspring. It's probably a real mess for the other two because of the lack of emotional support.

and nobody can fix it... just have to accept and go forward.

try to win her back... go ahead if you wish.

[bigboy133]

Thanks for your advice

[lightbulb27]

Im a step father. Anything is possible. But kids want their fathers

[Miristheiss]

I have no respect for you and it is a shame men are like this now.

Here is how this should have gone down:

HER: "Hey, name, what do you think about having a threesome? I'd like to do you and another man."

YOU" "GET OUT!!!, WE ARE DONE"

Nothing more to it then that. You should have ended it with her for even suggesting this. Letting another man F your woman? What an L.

Any woman who brings this up is already cheating or has already been talking to some guy and lining this up.

Men watching their girl get penetrated by another guy? Poor excuses for "men".

[Unit1]

"Men watching their girl get penetrated by another guy? Poor excuses for "men"."

I only see this online and nowhere else. Not even in porn sites I stumble upon it. I do not attract such degeneracy.

[bigboy133]

I only did this because she said originally if we did this then I could have an MFF threesome. What is your opinion on MFF threesomes then?

[bigboy133]

@Unit1 What about MFF threesomes?

[Miristheiss]

No one else ever becomes part of our sex life.

[Anonymous]

It's not fair, but when you agree to do a threesome, anything may happen, which is why I never encourage it to people who aren't in open relationships. I remember trying to impress my first lover by proposing a threesome. Of course, we did, and it wasn't until it happened that I recognised what a huge mistake it had been. I wasn't mentally or emotionally ready for a threesome, which made me quite jealous. So anyone thinking about doing a threesome should reconsider.

[bigboy133]

Yes, it was a mistake. She insisted on it being MMF. Maybe if it was MFF it would have been better.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry. 😔

[coxoabean]

That's why you should never have threesomes it's a sad situation. She should have tried to work things out better as you were her boyfriend, but if it is the other guys baby, well it is his baby. This is just a consequence of an action. I'm sorry your dealing with this. No it wasn't entirely fair for her to do this to you, but it's a sloppy situation. I hope you can figure it all out with her

[bigboy133]

Thank you for your response

[coxoabean]

Ya and again, I'm sorry that happened

[Avicenna]

You took the risk of that happening by stupidly letting your girlfriend fuck another man. I don't sympathize with you. If she had cheated on you, I'd feel differently.

[Finchie40]

Why you don’t have 3somes with your partner , only have 3somes with no strings attached people , , Relationships are meant for 2 people , not 3

[AviatorTom]

Life is not fair. When we realize that, we can enjoy life.

[bigboy133]

What is the meaning of this haiku

[HollyK21]

Yes it’s fair because it was a risk from the start.

[bigboy133]

She told me she was on birth control but turns out she wasn't. Also I was still her boyfriend it didn't make sense for her to leave me for the other guy

[HollyK21]

The pregnancy thing was a given to be prepared for, without protection even with protection, condoms break, women get pregnant on birth control, shit happens. I was referring more to the risk that came with the threesome itself. She’s having sex with someone else, of course she can gain feelings for him and vice versa. You exposed her to things she may not have even know she likes or wanted.

[melnc]

I don't know, but the three of you are disgusting. Even animals wouldn't behave this way.

[bigboy133]

Many humans have threesomes. How could you compare this to animals?

[exitseven]

okay- you should just let her go. you should thank your lucky tars that she is gone.

[bigboy133]

Thanks for your input exitseven

[Angelo75]

It isn't exactly fair. On the other hand it would be even less fair for the other man if he has to pay child support for a baby that is his... but you're the one bringing up the baby.
It's even less fair to the baby that will grow up without his real genetical father bringing him up.

So even though it's not fair to you, the whole situation is messed up.

[katiesmuff]

Sounds fair to me! If your going to gamble with your girlfriend with both of you guys cumming in her pussy and she turns up pregnant with the other guy the winner, guess he gets the girl and can fuck her forever now.

[bigboy133]

No, I think she should have considered alternatives

[Staximus]

She was probably screwing him on the side. Just be thankful it's not your kid and move on with your life. Don't have any more gay threesomes. Once you let another guy screw your wife, you're a bitch boy in her eyes.

[bigboy133]

We weren't married but thanks for your input Staximus

[DeeDeeDeVour]

She'd want to raise the child with its biological father.

[bigboy133]

But wouldn't you want to raise your child with your true love?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Its very fair. She cheated on you, paid the price and decided not to include you in that.

Not fair she cheated but everything after I'd consider you lucky.

[DryGermanGuy]

Play stupid games, win stupid prices.

(if the story even happened)

[Wise4myage]

Yes, because you agreed to the threesome in the first place. But she deserves to be your ex, not using protection.

[bigboy133]

Thanks for your input

[FreyaRed]

Fair? Life isn't fair. Maybe isn't getting rid of her as bad as you might think.

[RavVid]

Well if you have threesomes I think you can expect complications.

[DrPepper12]

Fair? No. Fucking weird? Yes. Good riddance if that's her game

[bigboy133]

Thanks for your advice DrPepper

[PeachyPie93]

When you broke the bond of only having two people in a relationship you fucked it up yourself. Yes it was fair, you play with fire don't be surprised you get burned.

[bigboy133]

No, we both agreed to have the threesome and the threesome only. We were supposedly still committed to each other

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah well you two stupidly didn't use protection and you invited a guy who could be better than you to sleep with your girl. He knocked her up so you ended up replaced. Learn from this, and maybe next time don't open your girlfriend up to other men and you might not get hurt then.

[jordynthedecayer99]

Like why would she leave you if they are a chance the baby is yours so pathetic

[Twalli]

That's the problem with threesomes. You may not be the best for her.

[noohair]

Life is not fair. And did I mention that this was a bad idea to start this?

[Anonymous]

What is she doing having sex with other guys? How come you couldn’t control her? Of course it’s fair. It’s your job to control her. Do better.

[Bigantdog69]

Fuck that hoe.. I wouldn't want to take care of someone else s kid anyway

[Anonymous]

Yes and in the exact same morning you claimed to impregnate a woman in a threesome with two women. Stop trolling. You are utterly ridiculous.

[bigboy133]

excuse me? please send a link to that question?

[Opinion Owner]

I was having a threesome with my girlfriend and there was another girl too. The other girl got pregnant and I don't know what to do? ↗

Right there. It's the one you just went and anonymized to hide it. It was just in your profile a minute ago. You thought that would work? LOL

[bigboy133]

All I can say is that I am not aware of that question

[HollyK21]

I don't know bigboy, same style post, same day, and that age range is the same…

[Cheerfull009]

There should b DNA , to check the father of the baby , no controversy

[Drewtate]

More than fair it's great.

[bigboy133]

How is it great? She was my love (or so I thought)

[Drewtate]

She's a slut who cheated on you with multiple guys and got pregnant with another man's kid. Count your blessings.

[Anonymous]

What did you expect? She was already telling you that you weren't enough for buy wanting to fuck other dudes.

[bigboy133]

The original reason we did this was because she said if I wanted an MFF threesome then we needed to have a MMF threesome first. Therefore your response is not valid

[rienna888]

Whose idea was it to have a threesome?

[RedInnocent69]

When you play, you have to be prepared to lose.

[bigboy133]

Please explain this quote

[RedInnocent69]

You let another guy raw dog your girl. What did you expect?

[gorydetails]

\You fucked around and found out.

[msc545]

I think you need to be grateful.

[Ladsin2]

Lol that's an interesting one.

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU DODGED A BULLET

[LiamJHayden]

Yes.

[bigboy133]

Please explain your reasoning