To be descriptive, my girlfriend broke up with me and told me to move on because she assumes that I don’t pay attention/hear/love/care for her.
recently, we’ve had a break up that she wanted or insisted that I come to terms and accept.
personally, I haven’t accepted it for the simple fact I did build a lot of feelings, but everything I do/say before and after finding out she was pregnant was a problem to her.
She thought I had a thing with a co-worker (which I didn’t) judging I’m a loyal man who actually values loyalty. Everything I do or say is bad to her or a red flag and I don’t get what’s wrong with a guy pursuing to restore his relationship and future family. She then told me she’s going to get an abortion (she’s 5 months) and said I stressed her and my unborn baby girl out and said I didn’t love or respect her for that. When all I was trying to do is be a man and work with her to build our relationship. she told me she was doing sugar baby things to make money (after our separation, which we were still hanging out but haven’t been seeing each other a lot, because she feel it’ll make things worse for us) and I didn’t support of that, but all of sudden now she was testing me to see if actually cared or loved her again. You can’t say you went to meet up with somebody did something uncomfortable that she couldn’t tell me about, but then turn around and say she was “testing” me. That’s childish, she said me calling her out on it and not supporting the idea she’s pregnant and being a sugar baby with my child is wrong and was childish. she doesn’t take accountability but I’m always in the wrong. she’s been around her recent ex and told me, he’s doing more than me during the pregnancy, when I always offered to do things for her and the baby. For example, “ you can if you want to, you don’t have to”. If I’m the father of the child why tell me I don’t have to do for my child? Which led me skeptic of her and what she accused or assume of me she’s probably done.
Help?
