I got my ex pregnant and now she acts like we are in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

My ex broke up with me last year because she found out I was still seeing my ex and I just was not ready for a relationship at the time we started talking again 4 months ago we have became friends and now she’s pregnant I have been been coming around a lot to be there for her during her pregnancy But she’s continues to accuse me of seeing other women and says I’m using her for sex We got into a argument yesterday about her accusing me of “cheating” while we are not in a relationship now she’s telling me she doesn’t want me around for our child and won’t let me come to any of her appointments will she eventually let me come around?

[_Maya_]

Well this is tough dude. On the one hand you are completely right. You are not in a relationship. You're exes. On the other hand you just really complicated that situation by knocking her up. The decent thing would be to not sleep around while the ex you got preggers goes through all that. With that said I mean you aren't cheating technically. Just do the right thing for your soon to be baby mom and your son or daughter. Don't need another one right now I would think?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You should leave exes alone.

2. If you are go Afing to see an ex, you shouldn't have sex with her.

3. How do you know it's your baby?

4. No, she may continue to hate your guts.

5. As soon as the baby is born, file a petition to determine paternity so that you know if the baby is yours. If it is, the court will make that determine and then enter an order setting your child support obligation and establishing your visitation rights.

[Summeroflove]

Learn your lesson. Don’t sleep around until you’re married. You’re not in a relationship though you need to be a father to your children. She’s a IDIOT you can see other women and it’s probably a good thing you do. She knows there is better women out there and she’s upset you don’t want her anymore. It’s her problem

[Avicenna]

You're going to be in for a rough next 18 years. She sounds like a Borderline.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Men like you are why kids grow up without dads and women are left single for life.

[msc545]

You and she and the baby and the Child Support Agency in your state are all in a relationship now. BE CAREFUL or she will ruin your life.

[Iron_Man]

You better fix it with her it’s your child to