Hi I just need some clarity cause I'm confused, he still wants to come over and stay over, he says it's because he dosent want me to be on my own. He does things he did when we were together like hugging me, complementing me, playing with my hair etc and I've noticed he's started staring at me more. He says he can't come back to me as he dosent want to look stupid, but asks questions like 'do you want to be with me' I said obviously and he said it's probably not going to happen though is it, and said he didn't even want to break up. Also he has said 'whatever happens between us'. I also bidded on a house last night and he said 'you'll definitely get that if I'm on the tenancy'. I've said to him he needs to stop as we're either together or we're not and it's not fair on either of us for him to keep doing this, he just keeps turning up. I'm really hurting and heartbroken and I'm also pregnant so obviously it's extremely difficult and I just want to get over him as soon as possible if its 100% done.
Sounds like he is having second thoughts. Sorry to hear this is happening- it's an especially difficult time for you.
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If the baby is his you are both going to have to learn to start talking to each other. Set up boundaries. Stop letting him walk all over you. You have a little one to protect now it’s not just you anymore.
Sounds like he still wants to be together? Maybe the pregnancy has something to do with it?
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You have to tell him to stop wasting your time. Tell him don't come here if all you are trying to do is fuck around. I am carrying our child, and I don't want our child to grow up with a deadbeat dad. So GTFO, or you stay. Quit playing games with me. Go be a bum at some other girl's house.
He just needs a kick in the ass to get him to wake up from whatever he is doing. It is not to make him go. It is so that he understands the situation better.
You guys need to get back together and work it out a baby is on the way
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