Is threatening to breakup if you don’t get your way a normal part of relationships?

[Anonymous]

So if things were going her way she was fine if we didn’t do something she wanted she wanted to break up. We were driving to the grocery store one day and I wouldn’t let her bully me in my car so I had her exit and she walked home called her mom saying she couldn’t be with someone who kicks her out of their car

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8 mo

Good opinions

[ProbablyClueless]

That is absolutely NOT a healthy part of any reasonably functioning relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah I was thinking that I had to go along with stuff to make sure it didn't happen

[mobiusforniner]

People who give ultimatums when they don’t get what they want, don’t love you

[Anonymous]

U kicked her out and now she’s kicking u out. Sounds fair

[Asker]

So I was supposed to take the abuse like a good boy

[Asker]

Also your defending someone who would hit me suddenly when she got upset and who beat on and kicked our dog

[Opinion Owner]

And she supposed to take the abuse? Lol

[Asker]

So politely asking her to exit my vehicle because she wouldn’t stop being abusive is abuse i even had to threaten to call the cops cause she would for a while do you realize how far someone has to be pushed to ask you to exit their vehicle or to call the cops

[kat1212]

definitely not a healthy thing to do

[Asker]

Yeah I was curious if my next relationship I just had to go along with stuff so it wouldn’t always hang over my head

[jahaims]

No lol

[Asker]

This happened a lot