What are the signs that your ex is over for you?

[Anonymous]

My ex has:

- blocked me
- avoids me
- gets annoyed when I try to interact with her
- told me to go “worry” about the woman that I am currently seeing

[Summeroflove]

Whether she has or hasn’t unless you have a kid or something with her just seriously leave her alone. She isn’t any of your business anymore and it’s not your problem, you have someone new to worry about which is true.

As for whether she’s moved on I cannot read her mind but all of those things would say that she’s moved on or at least doesn’t want anything to do with you at this point. Not as a friend, not as a acquaintance, and certainly not as a romantic partner.

Why are you even contacting her? Is it over something important or casual chat? I would say unless it’s important just leave her alone.

[Fireguy17]

probably when they have moved on like she did, she is doinking , aka the horizontal mambo, beast with 2 backs, someone else, her new guy has made her pass out during sex, she has had 4 or 5 three ways so far this month, and it is only the 4th, she is having fun, smiling, is enjoying life, traveling, has a new hair style, got her boobs done, the fact that she is breathing, the sun came up today.
The fact that you are asking this tells you that you do not even come up in a conversation about what's his name.

[thatshydork]

All of these are signs she’s over you.

A guy tried to do all this to my friend for a year after they broke up and even started harassing me and her other friends too for her contact information and it honestly just pissed us all off even more (he did something really fucked up to her). He even went as far as creating multiple accounts after we blocked the others he tried to contact us on.

[quickquesocheese]

Well i mean... those are pretty good signs.

[Anonymous]

I think there are several signs… but I believe you can be over an ex without being over what they did.


I broke up with a girl who cheated throughout the relationship. She did it in a pretty nasty way. Not as bad as some people have had, for sure, but still…


I am fully over her. I was over her pretty quickly.


However, I have no idea whether I am over what she did or how she did it. I’d like to think so, in most ways. I’m not petty. But that constant betrayal can stick deeply with a person. I’m not sure how that will affect future relationships. Time will tell.


I think if you can get through without wishing them harm… perhaps being able to not read into things with future relationships... I think if you can talk about the old relationship without dragging their name through the mud (or calling them filthy names), I think that’s a sign. Being honest, without lying about them to make them look worse… that’s a sign.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Xoxocutekitty has a superb counter question for you to think about.

You describe signs of anger and frustration from a person directed at you, it means she is probably in the process of mourning. That's all there is

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Now, if I assume correctly the implications here, your real question might be:
How to be with my ex again?

[Xoxocutekitty]

But actually, why aren't you worrying about the woman you're currently seeing? 🥲

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Can't contradict the supreme validity of this question here 😆

[Account]

Those are pretty great signs that... she is over you.

👌

[Anonymous]

Those things you listed but if they are still in contact with you, you're the one doing most of the contacting.

[Huntingnfishin]

That's not her being over you. That's her finding you annoying

[LiamJHayden]

I don't pay enough attention to my exes to know.

[Walksbehindtherows]

İLEIf your ex-girlfriend is now performing oral sex on another man, it means she has forgotten you.

[Ladsin2]

For me it's when she removes the restraining order.

[jackieistired]

When he stops calling as much, and complimenting you or just trying, it hurts

[sawno]

I mean those 4 are super obvious.

[exitseven]

The stalking stops.

[MikeTheBartender]

She's been over you for a long time. Sorry

[MikeTheBartender]

The block one is the biggest but they were all signs

[RedInnocent69]

Those are all pretty definitive signs…

[Tashaaaaa]

When he/she is having fun

[Anonymous]

Why are u bothering her

[stratford]

Sex dries up.

[OddBeMe]

Being your EX….”