How do you tell if your ex is over you?

[Anonymous]

If your ex is over you? List all the things you can think of.

[blueyedgrll]

1.Doesn't make it his/her top priority to call or talk to you. Or he/she just doesn't contact you at all.

2.Has found someone else to be with and is not concerned with you being jealous or not.

3.Apologizes for the end of the relationship and wishes you luck with your future relationships (basically there's no future relationship with him/her referenced at all)

4.Doesn't make it a habit to talk sh*t about you to people you both know.

5.If for some reason you try to contact them and you are unable to multiple times or they don't return the favor after voicemails, emails, texts, etc.

6.If you get ahold of them they don't seem eager or p*ssed off when talking to you. (They could careless if you called and calling them doesn't affect their mood at all.)

7.They have found happiness and are content with their current life situation after the breakup

Those are just a few of the more noticable ones.

[Autumnbaby352]

1. They stop all contact with you

2. They DON'T write poems about how they never thought it would end and then blog it on Myspace.

3. They DON'T come back a month later saying they miss you

4. They DON'T message you and say "I told you that you would move on faster"

The opposite of these would clearly show they aren't over you.

;]

[smellylittlecat]

My boyfriend reconnected with an ex of his... does it mean he isn't over her??

[Autumnbaby352]

Well no not necessarily. I mean how long have yall been dating and how long has it been since he and his ex broke up? I added my ex on MySpace but I'm completely over him so don't take EVERYTHING as though it means they aren't over someone. What I wrote was some stuff my ex had done like a month or so after we broke up and it seemed odd that he was doing that so soon afterwards yet he was over it all. I wouldn't worry about your boyfriend, but if it makes you feel better, ask him about it.

[Reeses-pieces777]

if he does not try to contact you, if he doesn't keep taking every opportunity he can to ask you out, if he doesn't send people to talk to you, if he doesn't keep your number , if he has a new girlfriend, if he doesn't even mention you then chances are, he's over you

[PsychMike]

As a guy I have a list of things that I will do to show I am over my ex.

1. I'll minimize all contact with the girl.

2. I won't talk about her to my friends.

3. If someone asks me about her I won't say much about her.

4. If she calls/texts me, I'll respond, but I won't seem very interested in what they are saying.

5. I won't keep trying to be her "friend".

It seems kind of harsh to just shut your ex completely out of your life after having a relationship with them, but I think it is necessary to be completely over them and move on. I think it also depends who the dumper is. If I am dumping then I will follow these guidelines I just listed. If I am the one being dumped I might change a couple if I still want to try to work things out with my ex.

[mshaker]

She doesn't call, she is out and never answers your calls, she always says just give me space and ill call you when I'm ready, she says she just wants to chill with her friends, when you ask her to go out for a coffee, and she says no in a polite way. Or when you just wanna talk to her on the phone and she just says I don't wanna talk, or I'm busy, and when you ask well what are you doing, they make up excuses and then you find out the truth by the word of mouth.

Im going through this right now...

:'(

[MrMixedUp]

The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. So if you're ex is truly over you, he just won't care about you, good or bad. So if he doesn't contact you or respond to you at all, he's probably over you. But if he is angry or talks badly about you or gets nervous around you, he's probably not over you.

[StrykerJ]

The moment they broke up with you?...

[blufrenzy93]

LOL.

that's one. ;P