I know this guy 8 months now. We met only 2x as it’s long distance and he travels for work. He never traveled to see me and only expected me to see him. He never asked me for any dates , never met family but would act like a boyfriend without ever asking to be his girlfriend.
He was first guy to ever treat me very nicely & good. But we met on a dating app & since I missed my bus trip last nite, he just ended things with me today. And I’m shocked at how someone can do that just leave u so easily? We had a lot of things in common. But I guess he don’t care about me or found someone else in secret.
I guess it’s ok as either way I’m looking for a real first boyfriend and this isn’t a relationship. I don't know what a boyfirend is like.
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I am sorry that happened to you, hun. Some guys can be cruel sometimes. 😭
Dw, you will get yourself a new man in no time! 💅🏾
We’ll the thing is , the original guy I liked was a guy at my job but we got fired Feb and coukdnt exhange numbers. So I met the dating app guy that was his lookalike. But now as I just returned to my job and have chance see the guy I like again, this dating app lookalike guy dumps me.
So I guess it all happened for a reason. As I’ll most likely be with the guy at work.
What does that mean tho? When a guy says he don’t want me get too attached?
Oooh, ok!
Yea, that means he didn’t like you to begin with, which is weird.
We texted all the time it was 8 months.
He just ended things as I cudnt travel far to meet him yesterday
Yea, so he didn’t like you as much as you thought he did. He clearly didn’t care. Just forget him and block him. 😌
I never had a guy like me. Like a guy be my boyfriend and date me and be inside my life meet family be daily with me in love.
Do all girls go through this? Only meet guys that want sex and pretned they like u?
Dw, that will change. 😊
Yes, a lot of girls go through that.
I’m 27 neevr met a guy that loves me wants be my boyfriend date me live with me meet family I never had that.
But like I said I’m back to my job so I hope this wk I can see the guy I like and give him my number. We got fired Feb and that was the only reason I met the dating app guy March. Cuz he was the lookalike to the guy I like from my job.
And just 2 days ago I was thinking how I’ll be with two guys? So now I’m free be with the guy at job that I love. He’s the original guy not a lookalike
But I’m worried I don't know if he’ll be my serious boyfriend or be same only want sex and not care about me
Well, that is part of finding love. You have to take your chances. He is a different guy. Every guys is different from the last.
I didn’t know a boyfriend was love. I thought a boyfriend was a guy that liked u
Ummm…what? 😭
Yea I’m clueless. Never had a boyfriend
He is not interested in anything more than being a friend or sex.
He was a nerdy guy quiet but ugly too, 😞
how I’ll get a boyfriend if everyone will be same forver only want sex and no one will love me and be my boyfriend?
sounds like he did not like you to begin with
If he didn’t like me he wudnt see me and text me tho. i don’t bother see the guys I have no interest in.
He was a nerdy shy guy. We were like twins had a lot in common.
But I guess this happened as I returned back to my job just a wk ago and I have chance be with the guy I originally loved.
This dating app guy was just a lookalike. Which is weird.