Anyone have dealings with someone with npd?

[Brokenheartedx]

Why do they contact old supply. Do they target all old supply or just some?

I told narc ex to delete everything over email and he replied he has and a few moments later got a withheld number call which means he has lied. Why would he hold on to these things from years ago?

[mandyfire98]

Yep, in college. Narcissists are all about control and power. Best thing you can do is completely stay away.

[_Senorita_]

You mean Narcissistic personality disorder?

If yes then they are just like that but don't give him any reaction... just ignore him...

Never go back!!!

Tell me about your experience what he did sis!!

[Brokenheartedx]

we met online not a dating app.. Chatted for ages met up then dumped me after few months.. Begged pleaded him he got others to harass me call me names etc changed my phone number.. Few months later tried Internet dating and he was on me on the those as well this went on for 3 years I had to pack it in.. Went silent then email came in 2022 binned it then June another email different name stupidly answered it and it was him.. Messed me about stood me up telling me I had to beg over emails.. Not without getting tm address. Lied told me his dad was dead years ago but asked me to have sex with his dad, his friend etc etc. Was specific on videos he took years aho about what I was wearing, pretended to have deleted them.
I'm actually scared of him

[_Senorita_]

That is what he wants don't be scared of him tell him you don't care about the photos or anything... But if he does anything or shares it then secretly go n complaint to a cyber crime... Otherwise don't answer unknown calls just IGNORE!!!
You are giving him reaction that is what he likes... Tell him he is insecure and selfish...
And he is not worth it... You will get someone much much better!!!

[Brokenheartedx]

I'm telling him nothing I blocked private numbers so I didn't get the call, I know it's him. I'm terrified of him now. There was a reason I was having nightmares when he popped back into my life I shoulda listened to my body. He's not finished with me yet I can sense it

[LiamJHayden]

A narc does not like to lose, and he likely feels like he did in this situation. stay strong and continue to ignore him. Nothing good will come from letting him back in.

[Brokenheartedx]

He lost nothing, he has been putting me down for years for no reason. I've blocked deleted abs avoided him and he still does this and I don't kno why