How do I get back at my (ex) boyfriend for cheating?

[Anonymous]

So this summer i went on a long vacation. My and my boyfriend got into a fight when i was on vacation. He could have went on vacation with me but instead he went with some "old work colleagues" on vacation to a different country. We barely spoke when i was away. After i came back from vacation. We were again not on good terms for some days. But now we acting normal again. Havrnt had sex yet. So today i found viagra pills, empty box and a doctors note for a std test in his car. The date on the doctors note was some days after my vacation, but i hadn't seen him yet. Also we usually use a condom, for the 3 years we"ve been together. I also found a bill for a fancy restaurant and it said 2 guests. So him and someone else. Its the same place he and I always went to. The weird thing was that the same night he was calling me and texting me wanting to have sex. So probably he went on a date but didn't get sex so he texted me. I didn't accept his offer. I dont just want to have sex if we are not on good terms. Now i haven't said anything about it tp him yet. Do i cpnfront him about it? What should i say? And how do i get back on him. I need help

[Finchie40]

Just end it with him , and move on, you clearly have the evidence that he cheated on you , so the best revenge is to walk away and kill him with the silent treatment , because arguing with him is just a waste of time and energy , and it isn’t going to get you anywhere, all it will give you is a high blood pressure and anger and sadness pretty much , . once a cheater is caught red handed , they will continue to lie and try to act like a victim , when really they are the POS , So if you try getting revenge on a cheater , they will try to flip it around , that you are the bad guy and act like they are the victim. So it’s better to just walk away and tell them to Go Fuck themselves you don’t need to answer any of his questions, because you weren’t the one that betrayed him , he betrayed you.

[Anonymous]

I’m not even going to read this. You don’t. You’re almost 40, move on. Be a grown up. He’s a POS for doing what he did. Getting revenge on him is being childish, the best thing you can do is move on. You move on, forgive him. Sure that sounds stupid but you forgive him for your sake so that you can move on. Otherwise it’s always going to be stuck w you emotionally. If part of moving on and forgiving him means not talking to him anymore than so be it. But you need to let it go in order to completely move on.

[Anonymous]

Personally, I feel that the best revenge is completely moving on with your life, creating an even better life for yourself, and leaving them in the past where they belong. Petty revenge usually doesn't actually do anyone any favors, nor does it really make people feel as good as they think it will. I find that usually, life has its own way of teaching the hard lessons anyway.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't matter what these answers say. If you want to then do it as long as you're sure he cheated. There's nothing wrong with treating others as they treat you, if that will make you feel better.

[Dargil]

Somebody once said living well is the best revenge. Simply find somebody that's better than he was in every respect and let him know that you did. My ex, who was wildly unfaithful, saw whom I had married. And she tried to tell people that my new wife knew that I was a bad guy and they ignored her.

[DextroShade]

He probably was sick of using condoms and found a girl who let him hit it raw. Also, he probably wants someone who shows genuine desire for him as you apparently didn't.

As for getting back at him, don't. Just move on with your life, find another man, and don't punish him for the last guy's mistakes.

[loveslongnails]

You need "help"? To do what? You think you still have a future with this man? The only "help" you should be looking for are movers to get your stuff out of his place or his stuff out of yours. If you decide to STAY with guy and listen to explanations, then you should seek psychiatric help, or similar.

[Lliam]

The best revenge is to move on, cut all ties, and treat him like he never existed. Find a better partner, and be happy. Let your ex eat his heart out.

[Abbycado]

You don’t. Be a 30 fucking something adult and move on. I hate coward anons.

[joshjosh1156]

100x this ^ fuck that guy it’s not worth the mental bandwidth to even think about revenge because that’ll just show you still care

[Abbycado]

@joshjosh1156 same with the girl that does the same shit. Doesn’t matter gender. Dump em.

[slatyb]

You go on to have a happy relationship with someone else.

[RedInnocent69]

Well, you could cheat and make sure he knows it. But probably better to break up and move on. Your new, better relationship/personal success without him is revenge enough.

[Fireguy17]

Dump his sorry ass and find someone who won't cheat on you.

[Reijen]

Not reading all that, since I'm sure it's just drivel.
The answer to your question is: live a good life.

[dragoblack]

You don't. The fact you are considering it, says more about you, but that is a different issue. The answer is just leave him.

[Anonymous]

Sleep with a black guy and flaunt it to him. Tell him how much better it was.

[Anonymous]

Only read title. Block on all channels and move on, he ain't worth your attention and brain power.

[Opinion Owner]

Should probably confront him first tho

[LiamJHayden]

He at most wants to add you to his rotation.

[Firestar01]

That's the neat thing - you don't. You can't. Just move on.

[Still-alive]

Move on. He doesn’t want you. He just wants sex from you only. he's an ex for a reason.

[In_Trance]

Cheating is small dick energy. Move the fuck on with your life

[Anonymous]

Fake story a guy would never leave all that stuff just laying around.

[Cumbelly]

Give some revenge head.

[strateguy632]

By dumping him

[DrPepper12]

Just walk away. Living well is the best revenge.

[Mati91]

Moving on by living better is best revenge.

[JoeRob67]

Confront him for sure. Get him back by ending it.

[noohair]

I don't do revenge. Long story,.

[Anonymous]

It's all too convenient for the story to be real