In the beginning of everything I didn't want anything with him, I wasn't ready for a relationship and I didn't like him. But we stayed as friends and then I decided to put my guards down and let him in my life. Wow, What a beautiful experience. 3 months together.
This was the first relationship that I had with a such independent person, He's 27 years old, lives by himself and manages all his bills and cars. I'm 22 years old and just graduated from college. I felt really free with him, comfortable and so damn happy. He was crazy about me.
I got used to him and really attached why? I just moved to Chicago and his not all I have but part because my cousins are his friends and we have the same friends.
He told me that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me or not. So, we started talking about it, and he said lets think about it. He broke up with me because he said he wasn't feeling, not anything but like stuck. We both cried, he said he's scared cause I'm a great girl, perfect girlfriend, great family, and it sucks that he doesn't feel that way. So, after that I didn't call him or looked for him. So 3 days later after the break up, he calls me and says " OHHH now that your single you don't call me or text me? what have you been up too? what's new? you know making conversation. Then he called me again 2 days after that, I didn't pick up.
The next day he calls again, I pick up. He says: I can't believe ur being a hypocrite with me, I didn't do nothing wrong, Why you don't pick up my calls? If I have a guy in my life to let him know. So I said; I'm not mad at you there is no reason to and I'm not dating cause I'm not over you yet.
Well, after that we might have had short conversation by text, then a week after My car broke down, so I called him. We spent the whole day together, had dinner, went to his house, had dinner and a restaurant, then went to a get together of our friend in common. WE HAD SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER!. We laughed, he talked to me about his life, what he has been doing, he brought me a gift from NY that he went when we weren't that good in the relationship. And I was like why you brought me a gift? He said I'm not that big of an asshole. I was shocked. Nothing, after that I left the get together with my cousin, an I text him saying thanks for helping me with my car and he was like ohh you left? I said yes.. and he was like oh ok sorry. cool.
The next day day we saw each other in a game of softball and were all together jut chilling. he said hi and the beginning and I said goodbye. etc.
The day after, he texts me too see hows everything going? I made conversation with him about 10 min. I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY, I can't concentrate anymore, I can't breathe like I used to, and he took my smile away. the real reason he broke up with me he told my cousin that he felt fed up with our relationship with all my calling and jealousy for him going out with friends.
So he does feel and care!, I want him back! HELP ASAP
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Honey! This is to your last update... it's ok. The words made me want to punch walls when friends told me that. I was so upset... but I was dumped during a twin pregnancy... but I don't care how anyone was dumped... it's hurts all the same. But I heard this line in a song... "I'd rather hurt then feel nothing at all". you're alive! Be grateful, for every situation, good or bad creates character. To be honest I didn't read this entire post... bottom line you want to get your ex back... but focus on getting yourself back. That's what I did, with the intention of getting back with my ex, but in the process I started to not feel so strongly towards him and I met someone else. I am in no way ready for anything physical, but the attention and excitement of this new relationship is so awesome, and you realize how you are supposed to feel... wanted and loved... not rejected and low. Baby Girl... don't worry bout the details of how things got to where they did... we are here now..accept and move on. You can love him too without being his "girlfriend"...sometimes, you have to set people free...if they come back it's meant to be.