How do I get back my ex boyfriend that dumped me?

In the beginning of everything I didn't want anything with him, I wasn't ready for a relationship and I didn't like him. But we stayed as friends and then I decided to put my guards down and let him in my life. Wow, What a beautiful experience. 3 months together.

This was the first relationship that I had with a such independent person, He's 27 years old, lives by himself and manages all his bills and cars. I'm 22 years old and just graduated from college. I felt really free with him, comfortable and so damn happy. He was crazy about me.

I got used to him and really attached why? I just moved to Chicago and his not all I have but part because my cousins are his friends and we have the same friends.

He told me that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me or not. So, we started talking about it, and he said lets think about it. He broke up with me because he said he wasn't feeling, not anything but like stuck. We both cried, he said he's scared cause I'm a great girl, perfect girlfriend, great family, and it sucks that he doesn't feel that way. So, after that I didn't call him or looked for him. So 3 days later after the break up, he calls me and says " OHHH now that your single you don't call me or text me? what have you been up too? what's new? you know making conversation. Then he called me again 2 days after that, I didn't pick up.

The next day he calls again, I pick up. He says: I can't believe ur being a hypocrite with me, I didn't do nothing wrong, Why you don't pick up my calls? If I have a guy in my life to let him know. So I said; I'm not mad at you there is no reason to and I'm not dating cause I'm not over you yet.

Well, after that we might have had short conversation by text, then a week after My car broke down, so I called him. We spent the whole day together, had dinner, went to his house, had dinner and a restaurant, then went to a get together of our friend in common. WE HAD SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER!. We laughed, he talked to me about his life, what he has been doing, he brought me a gift from NY that he went when we weren't that good in the relationship. And I was like why you brought me a gift? He said I'm not that big of an asshole. I was shocked. Nothing, after that I left the get together with my cousin, an I text him saying thanks for helping me with my car and he was like ohh you left? I said yes.. and he was like oh ok sorry. cool.

The next day day we saw each other in a game of softball and were all together jut chilling. he said hi and the beginning and I said goodbye. etc.

The day after, he texts me too see hows everything going? I made conversation with him about 10 min. I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY, I can't concentrate anymore, I can't breathe like I used to, and he took my smile away. the real reason he broke up with me he told my cousin that he felt fed up with our relationship with all my calling and jealousy for him going out with friends.

So he does feel and care!, I want him back! HELP ASAP
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SORRY FOR THIS STORY FOR BEING SO LONG BUT I NEED YOU DO UNDERSTAND DETAILS SO THE ADVICE COULD HELP ME. THANK YOU FOR UR TIME!
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by the way its been 2 weeks after the break-up
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I miss him :( is their like anything I can do? I want to talk to him, tell him to go out, I just can't get over it :(
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After break up he puts as his profile pic him and me, then, then 3 days later comments on pictures I upload which he would never do those 2 I just mentioned. And now is looking for my attention to see if I go to a concert. I'M CONFUSED
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We had a great time and the concert! same care, DANCED A LOT! In the concert I put in my bb : " Cause I'm missing..." He writes to me in the concert which he is right in front of me, what are you missing? I'm like you! He says we will talk later about it
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I asked him he said I thought you had to talk to me about us, and that wasn't the moment" OMG I was so upset thinking he was gonna tell me something. Monday, he asks if I'm still upset? I talked normal. FYI he contacted me the whole last week
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I am co confused! He contacts me the whole last week, we even go to the mall, concert, then he tells me that, then I get my hopes up then give up cause apparently he doesn't miss me, then he wonders if I'm still upset? OH MY GOD! what doesn't he want?
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I WANT HIM OUT OF MY HEAD ! IDEAS?
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SHOULD I ERASE HIM FROM MY BBN CONTACTS, PHONE NUMBER AND FACEBOOK ? OR NOT ! I HATE EVERY TIME HE UPDATES HIS STATUS!
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MY EX EVER SINCE HE DUMPED ME. LIKE HE CALLS ME WITH EXCUSES, TEXTS ME ASKING RANDOM QUESTIONS, LIKE ALWAYS FINDS A WAY TO TALK TO ME, TO START CONVERSATION. RECENTLY I DIDN'T PICK UP HIS CALL (NO SIGNAL) AND HE FLIPPED OUT, WHERE R U? UR WITH A GUY?
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My ex and I have been intimate like for a whole week and than one time this week. I even slept in his house. Is it possible for me to get my ex back if we had sex?
How do I get back my ex boyfriend that dumped me?
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